1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:07,659 --> 00:00:10,053 Most people spend their lives trying to get 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:00:10,184 --> 00:00:14,275 what I already have, a perfect family, the perfect job, 5 00:00:14,405 --> 00:00:16,625 perfect life. 6 00:00:16,755 --> 00:00:20,542 I've been admired and respecte, and even envied for it. 7 00:00:23,066 --> 00:00:24,111 Now look at me. 8 00:00:25,677 --> 00:00:27,462 How in God's name did I get here? 9 00:00:32,206 --> 00:00:34,643 ♪ Happy birthday to you 10 00:00:34,773 --> 00:00:38,777 ♪ Happy birthday to you 11 00:00:38,908 --> 00:00:40,083 ♪ Happy... 12 00:00:40,214 --> 00:00:42,172 Oh wait, hold on, where is Chad? 13 00:00:43,173 --> 00:00:44,435 Probably in his room. 14 00:00:44,566 --> 00:00:46,568 Okay, you know what? Don't open anything, okay? 15 00:00:46,698 --> 00:00:48,091 My candles are melting. 16 00:00:48,222 --> 00:00:49,658 We can get new candles for the cake. 17 00:00:49,788 --> 00:00:51,051 - Don't worry Mom, I got it. - Okay. 18 00:00:53,096 --> 00:00:56,491 So, you guys, Chad had turned into a full-fledged teenager. 19 00:00:56,621 --> 00:00:58,232 You may have noticed that you haven't seen him much 20 00:00:58,362 --> 00:01:01,322 on 8 Passengers lately, and that is because he's been 21 00:01:01,452 --> 00:01:02,758 checking out of family activities. 22 00:01:03,759 --> 00:01:04,499 Come. 23 00:01:05,587 --> 00:01:06,544 Chad? 24 00:01:07,850 --> 00:01:08,764 Honey? 25 00:01:12,507 --> 00:01:14,074 Hey, Chad, honey. 26 00:01:16,076 --> 00:01:18,513 Hey. Can you take the headphones off? 27 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:21,211 - Hi. - Hey. 28 00:01:21,342 --> 00:01:23,083 Why aren't you downstairs? 29 00:01:23,213 --> 00:01:25,259 I'm not into the whole party thing. 30 00:01:25,389 --> 00:01:27,217 Well, it's Russell's birthday. 31 00:01:27,348 --> 00:01:28,784 You need to show him your love and respect. 32 00:01:31,178 --> 00:01:33,005 Okay, you know what? Let's... just cut. 33 00:01:34,616 --> 00:01:37,488 Hey, honey, this vlogging is our livelihood, 34 00:01:37,619 --> 00:01:38,837 you know that. And as part of this-- 35 00:01:38,968 --> 00:01:41,144 hey, can you look at me? Thank you. 36 00:01:41,275 --> 00:01:43,886 As a member of this family, you need to do your part to increase 37 00:01:44,016 --> 00:01:46,715 the viewership, right? And our viewers wanna see the Chad 38 00:01:46,845 --> 00:01:49,283 they know and love, not Mopey McMopersons. 39 00:01:49,413 --> 00:01:50,762 - Mm-hmm. - Okay? So, what do you say? 40 00:01:51,502 --> 00:01:53,374 Come on, you know how much Russell adores you. 41 00:01:53,504 --> 00:01:54,984 He would be crushed if you weren't there. 42 00:01:56,638 --> 00:01:57,856 All right. 43 00:01:57,987 --> 00:01:59,293 There you go. 44 00:02:01,077 --> 00:02:02,861 Okay. Oh, I'll take that. Thank you so much. 45 00:02:02,992 --> 00:02:06,822 Happy birthday to you! 46 00:02:08,998 --> 00:02:10,521 All right, blow them out! 47 00:02:15,309 --> 00:02:17,093 Oh, my gosh, you guys, I love having kids. 48 00:02:17,224 --> 00:02:18,138 Aw. 49 00:02:18,660 --> 00:02:20,314 Aw. 50 00:02:20,444 --> 00:02:23,926 And obviously YouTube viewers love the Franke family. 51 00:02:24,056 --> 00:02:27,103 This week, the streaming channel announced that 8 Passengers, 52 00:02:27,234 --> 00:02:30,019 Ruby Franke's parenting vlog about herself and her family 53 00:02:30,150 --> 00:02:33,283 has now surpassed 2.5 million viewers. 54 00:02:33,414 --> 00:02:36,417 What looks like an ordinary house in a middle-class 55 00:02:36,547 --> 00:02:38,897 Utah neighborhood is actually home to this 56 00:02:39,028 --> 00:02:41,204 increasingly famous family. 57 00:02:41,335 --> 00:02:44,033 It's officially summer, and you know what that means? 58 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,209 Barbecue season. 59 00:02:46,340 --> 00:02:47,210 Pass! 60 00:02:48,864 --> 00:02:52,259 And pool parties. Woo-hoo! 61 00:02:52,389 --> 00:02:54,304 Honestly, it was all Ruby's idea. I was worried about 62 00:02:54,435 --> 00:02:55,479 the constant filming, but... 63 00:02:56,785 --> 00:02:57,786 you kinda get used to it. 64 00:02:59,396 --> 00:03:01,964 I had no idea that when I started posting 65 00:03:02,094 --> 00:03:05,924 these videos, that it would turn into this... thing. 66 00:03:06,055 --> 00:03:08,753 The thing it turned into was a parenting channel, 67 00:03:08,884 --> 00:03:11,321 that offered families a look at how Ruby and Kevin 68 00:03:11,452 --> 00:03:12,670 raise their children. 69 00:03:12,801 --> 00:03:14,933 Okay, Shari, breakfast. 70 00:03:15,064 --> 00:03:16,283 Anything but omelets. 71 00:03:16,413 --> 00:03:17,545 Chad, Chad, garbage. 72 00:03:17,675 --> 00:03:19,111 - Got it. - Abby, laundry. 73 00:03:19,242 --> 00:03:20,635 No problem. 74 00:03:20,765 --> 00:03:21,984 Okay, and Eve, you're gonna dust the shelves. 75 00:03:22,114 --> 00:03:23,855 - Okay. - Okay. 76 00:03:23,986 --> 00:03:25,770 Uh, Julie, kitchen clean up. 77 00:03:25,901 --> 00:03:27,990 Again? Why can't I make breakfast? 78 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,122 Because the last time you did, nobody wanted to eat it. 79 00:03:32,299 --> 00:03:34,649 Okay, Russell, recycling. 80 00:03:34,779 --> 00:03:36,085 - Sure. - Great. 81 00:03:38,305 --> 00:03:40,568 This household is not a democracy. 82 00:03:42,134 --> 00:03:44,093 Tough love or loving mother? 83 00:03:44,224 --> 00:03:46,356 Either way, millions of viewers agree, 84 00:03:46,487 --> 00:03:48,576 8 Passengers is worth the watc. 85 00:03:48,706 --> 00:03:51,492 For Channel 8 News Utah, I'm Morgan Riley. 86 00:03:53,972 --> 00:03:55,409 - They're cute, aren't they? - Oh, delightful. 87 00:03:55,539 --> 00:03:57,454 The model Christian family. 88 00:03:57,585 --> 00:03:59,891 And Kevin is a professor at the university, right? 89 00:04:00,022 --> 00:04:00,849 Mm-hmm. 90 00:04:02,633 --> 00:04:04,548 Wait, aren't you on the church Christmas committee? 91 00:04:04,679 --> 00:04:06,289 I mean, the Frankes would be perfect 92 00:04:06,420 --> 00:04:07,551 for the family that lights the tree. 93 00:04:10,119 --> 00:04:12,687 Well, between you and me, they're not perfect. 94 00:04:12,817 --> 00:04:14,689 Ruby's such a stickler for perfection and she would 95 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:17,344 never show it but I know for a fact that they've been 96 00:04:17,474 --> 00:04:18,954 having some problems with their eldest son, Chad. 97 00:04:20,651 --> 00:04:21,783 Teenagers. 98 00:04:21,913 --> 00:04:24,046 Hmm. Apparently he's a handful. 99 00:04:24,176 --> 00:04:26,483 Hmm. As you know, my schedule is tight, 100 00:04:26,614 --> 00:04:28,050 but I would like to offer my help. 101 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:30,661 Would you like me to make an introduction? 102 00:04:30,792 --> 00:04:32,272 I think they would be grateful. 103 00:04:34,665 --> 00:04:35,927 I'll call her right away. 104 00:04:37,015 --> 00:04:40,236 Kids all looked so great today. I cannot imagine 105 00:04:40,367 --> 00:04:42,804 how much more attention they're gonna get in school. 106 00:04:42,934 --> 00:04:44,675 Yeah, I'm not so crazy about that. 107 00:04:44,806 --> 00:04:47,809 Oh, come on, it's the local news. They can handle it. 108 00:04:50,899 --> 00:04:52,466 What are we gonna do about Chad? 109 00:04:53,075 --> 00:04:54,381 What do you mean? 110 00:04:54,511 --> 00:04:56,600 He was so grumpy at Russell's birthday. 111 00:04:57,122 --> 00:04:59,821 Oh, I wouldn't worry too much. 112 00:05:00,952 --> 00:05:02,127 Boys will be boys. 113 00:05:02,258 --> 00:05:03,477 Hmm, true, but... 114 00:05:05,566 --> 00:05:08,133 hmm, I do worry that his acting out is gonna cause bigger 115 00:05:08,264 --> 00:05:09,700 problems in the future. 116 00:05:12,224 --> 00:05:13,704 What's this? 117 00:05:13,835 --> 00:05:16,446 Oh, I don't know, just a little something 118 00:05:16,577 --> 00:05:19,797 for the best wife in the world. 119 00:05:32,419 --> 00:05:33,898 Is this not more of a gift for you? 120 00:05:34,029 --> 00:05:34,986 Uh-uh. 121 00:05:36,945 --> 00:05:38,250 - Kevin? - Mm-hmm? 122 00:05:39,730 --> 00:05:41,341 Kevin, I'm serious, we need to talk about this. 123 00:05:42,211 --> 00:05:42,994 Okay. 124 00:05:48,217 --> 00:05:51,046 I spoke to Darcy Bastow today and she mentioned 125 00:05:51,176 --> 00:05:52,352 Jodi Hildebrandt. 126 00:05:53,222 --> 00:05:54,441 You know, the family therapist? 127 00:05:55,572 --> 00:05:57,574 You've always done such a great job with the kids. 128 00:05:57,705 --> 00:05:59,707 Are you sure we really need a therapist? 129 00:05:59,837 --> 00:06:03,406 I think Chad might need some expert help. And Jodi is super 130 00:06:03,537 --> 00:06:06,191 popular in the community, and so hard to get in with, 131 00:06:06,322 --> 00:06:08,019 but Darcy said she'd put in a good word for us. 132 00:06:10,239 --> 00:06:15,375 Uh, well, if you think it'll help, what have we got to lose? 133 00:06:16,114 --> 00:06:17,028 Great. 134 00:06:52,107 --> 00:06:54,588 - Ruby? - Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 135 00:06:54,718 --> 00:06:55,763 It's paradise, isn't it? 136 00:06:57,068 --> 00:06:58,156 Are you building a home there? 137 00:06:58,287 --> 00:06:59,419 Well, actually, it's a potential spot 138 00:06:59,549 --> 00:07:00,855 for my Garden of Eden. 139 00:07:00,985 --> 00:07:03,074 A place where I can do God's work in peace. 140 00:07:04,075 --> 00:07:05,120 Come on, let's go talk outside. 141 00:07:06,730 --> 00:07:08,166 - Thank you for having me. - Of course. 142 00:07:09,254 --> 00:07:11,605 I pride myself on making time for children in need. 143 00:07:11,735 --> 00:07:14,129 Well, it sure is gonna be nice to have somebody 144 00:07:14,259 --> 00:07:15,783 to talk to about Chad's antics. 145 00:07:17,219 --> 00:07:19,787 Ruby, clearly you're ahead of the game when it comes 146 00:07:19,917 --> 00:07:22,920 to raising children. But in my experience, I have found that 147 00:07:23,051 --> 00:07:25,575 the parents need to help themselves before they can help 148 00:07:25,706 --> 00:07:28,796 their kids. That oftentimes, when children act up, 149 00:07:28,926 --> 00:07:30,580 it's usually because something's off balance in the home. 150 00:07:33,191 --> 00:07:35,498 Would you say that Kevin is a good role model? 151 00:07:35,629 --> 00:07:39,067 Oh, the kids worship him. 152 00:07:39,197 --> 00:07:40,111 Is he virtuous? 153 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,681 With all those raging hormones, young men need a steady rudder. 154 00:07:44,812 --> 00:07:47,118 - Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. - Hmm. 155 00:07:48,293 --> 00:07:51,296 So, he's an attentive father who puts the welfare 156 00:07:51,427 --> 00:07:52,472 of his family first? 157 00:07:54,386 --> 00:07:56,084 Actually... 158 00:07:58,956 --> 00:08:02,090 lately I have been having some trouble getting him to focus 159 00:08:02,220 --> 00:08:03,787 on Chad's issues. 160 00:08:03,918 --> 00:08:04,745 And why is that? 161 00:08:06,877 --> 00:08:08,488 He seems to be more interested in... 162 00:08:10,968 --> 00:08:15,277 Sex? Don't be ashamed. This is a very common problem 163 00:08:15,407 --> 00:08:17,453 with married men in our community. How many times a day 164 00:08:17,584 --> 00:08:19,324 do you think your husband thinks about sex? 165 00:08:19,455 --> 00:08:23,154 Oh, I don't know, no more than the average male I -- 166 00:08:23,285 --> 00:08:26,854 Be careful. Don't downplay it. Sexual addiction 167 00:08:26,984 --> 00:08:28,725 is toxic within the home. 168 00:08:28,856 --> 00:08:31,989 Addiction? I've never thought of it like that. 169 00:08:33,164 --> 00:08:35,993 A supersized libido can lead to perversions. 170 00:08:36,124 --> 00:08:38,039 And in the eyes of the church... 171 00:08:38,169 --> 00:08:41,521 Right. Right, I think I see where you're going with that. 172 00:08:44,175 --> 00:08:46,700 You know what? I have a men's therapy group that would be 173 00:08:46,830 --> 00:08:50,051 fantastic for Kevin. It's Kevin, right? 174 00:08:50,181 --> 00:08:52,532 - Yeah. - It's an open forum for men 175 00:08:52,662 --> 00:08:56,666 to speak freely on men's issues. It's a great group of men. 176 00:08:56,797 --> 00:09:00,017 My counseling has saved a lot of marriages. But don't take 177 00:09:00,148 --> 00:09:03,804 my word for it. Tell Kevin to speak to the church elders. 178 00:09:03,934 --> 00:09:05,022 They endorse me. 179 00:09:09,157 --> 00:09:11,202 I thought the counseling was for Chad, not for me? 180 00:09:13,030 --> 00:09:16,120 I know. I wasn't keen on it at first either, but then, 181 00:09:16,251 --> 00:09:19,863 I had to be honest with myself and admit that 182 00:09:19,994 --> 00:09:23,650 our relationship is not perfect. 183 00:09:24,564 --> 00:09:25,695 Because of me? 184 00:09:25,826 --> 00:09:29,351 No. Not just because of you. 185 00:09:30,787 --> 00:09:33,703 But I do really think that we could both benefit 186 00:09:33,834 --> 00:09:35,052 from this therapy. 187 00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:38,229 Do you know how much Jodi charges for those 188 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,145 men's sessions? It's almost double what we're paying 189 00:09:41,276 --> 00:09:42,364 for Chad, and with Shari starting college -- 190 00:09:42,494 --> 00:09:46,020 Honey, we're doing okay. We can afford it. 191 00:09:46,150 --> 00:09:50,154 And money aside, Jodi is very insightful. 192 00:09:50,285 --> 00:09:52,287 She's not preachy at all, and I just think 193 00:09:52,417 --> 00:09:56,465 if you gave her a chance, you'd really like her. Plus... 194 00:09:58,423 --> 00:09:59,903 it would mean a lot to me. 195 00:10:02,340 --> 00:10:06,083 Okay, now this is spot on. Stitching looks very elegant. 196 00:10:06,214 --> 00:10:08,956 Sorry you had to tell the manufacturer to do it again. 197 00:10:09,086 --> 00:10:10,479 I'm your business manager. It's my job 198 00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:11,915 to make you happy. - Hmm. 199 00:10:12,046 --> 00:10:13,395 What do you think about the hats? 200 00:10:13,525 --> 00:10:15,876 Hats. Um, hang on, I'm looking for them. 201 00:10:18,182 --> 00:10:19,793 Personally, I think they should be red instead of-- 202 00:10:19,923 --> 00:10:21,490 Lindsey, sorry, I have to call you back. 203 00:10:34,242 --> 00:10:38,986 Um, so I just got a text message from Eve's teacher. 204 00:10:39,116 --> 00:10:42,337 Eve forgot her lunch today, and could I bring it to her? 205 00:10:45,122 --> 00:10:48,952 I know it makes her teacher uncomfortable for Eve to go 206 00:10:49,083 --> 00:10:51,651 hungry, and it would ease her discomfort if I could just 207 00:10:51,781 --> 00:10:54,741 come to the school with a lunch. But um, I... 208 00:10:54,871 --> 00:10:59,310 I responded and said Eve is responsible for making 209 00:10:59,441 --> 00:11:01,573 her lunches in the morning, and she told me she did. 210 00:11:04,664 --> 00:11:06,753 Eve is responsible for making her lunches in the morning, 211 00:11:06,883 --> 00:11:08,624 and she told me she did. 212 00:11:08,755 --> 00:11:12,236 So, the natural outcome is Eve will need to go hungry. 213 00:11:15,675 --> 00:11:16,850 Hey. 214 00:11:16,980 --> 00:11:18,416 - How's is going? - Good. 215 00:11:19,287 --> 00:11:21,768 Just putting final touches on this episode 216 00:11:21,898 --> 00:11:23,683 and I can upload it. - I don't mean to interrupt 217 00:11:23,813 --> 00:11:26,555 but I wanted to say that if it's that important to you, 218 00:11:26,686 --> 00:11:29,036 I'll do it. I'll try the therapy. 219 00:11:31,778 --> 00:11:34,084 Thank you. 220 00:11:34,215 --> 00:11:36,043 I really don't think you'll regret it. 221 00:11:37,827 --> 00:11:39,133 Don't stay up too late. 222 00:11:46,314 --> 00:11:49,056 So, the natural outcome is, Eve will need to go hungry. 223 00:11:55,192 --> 00:11:57,717 The truth is, it was only an hour before 224 00:11:57,847 --> 00:12:02,591 school let out. Eve would come home and eat all she wanted. 225 00:12:02,722 --> 00:12:07,074 Even so, I can't say I didn't feel bad for her. I did. 226 00:12:07,204 --> 00:12:10,512 No parent ever wants to see their child suffer. 227 00:12:12,035 --> 00:12:14,864 But I know Eve will be all the stronger for it. 228 00:12:17,649 --> 00:12:19,086 I'm proud of my decision 229 00:12:20,565 --> 00:12:22,002 and I think Jodi would be, too. 230 00:12:24,004 --> 00:12:25,614 She's really helping with Chad. 231 00:12:27,964 --> 00:12:29,183 Which is good. 232 00:12:31,489 --> 00:12:33,796 Because Jodi is right, 233 00:12:33,927 --> 00:12:36,190 we wouldn't want to jeopardize the 8 Passengers brand. 234 00:12:43,458 --> 00:12:46,722 See, I know what I'm doing is wrong, but I... 235 00:12:46,853 --> 00:12:48,506 I just can't seem to stop. 236 00:12:48,637 --> 00:12:50,770 Addictions are compulsive. 237 00:12:50,900 --> 00:12:53,294 You need to focus on not putting yourself in a position 238 00:12:53,424 --> 00:12:54,643 where you'll be tempted. 239 00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:56,384 But I can't help myself, right? I have, 240 00:12:56,514 --> 00:12:58,255 I have urges. 241 00:12:58,386 --> 00:13:01,128 Your self-pollution is a violation of the church's 242 00:13:01,258 --> 00:13:03,478 law of chastity. Now, say it. 243 00:13:04,305 --> 00:13:06,176 Uh... 244 00:13:06,307 --> 00:13:08,744 I want you to say because I don't think you believe it. 245 00:13:14,445 --> 00:13:16,534 Um... 246 00:13:16,665 --> 00:13:18,972 my impure thoughts are a danger to my family. 247 00:13:20,451 --> 00:13:23,237 That's right, Braxton. Speak the truth. 248 00:13:23,367 --> 00:13:25,761 Live in truth. No more living in distortion. 249 00:13:28,329 --> 00:13:31,593 Kevin? I know this is your first session, 250 00:13:31,723 --> 00:13:33,943 but are you ready to talk about your sex addiction? 251 00:13:34,901 --> 00:13:37,425 Uh... sex addiction? 252 00:13:37,555 --> 00:13:41,690 I, don't uh, mean... it's not an addiction. 253 00:13:43,431 --> 00:13:46,521 There can be no healing with hubris and self-deceit. 254 00:13:46,651 --> 00:13:48,653 I don't mean to be difficult but I, I don't think this 255 00:13:48,784 --> 00:13:50,960 is a problem for my wife and I. - Is that right? 256 00:13:51,091 --> 00:13:53,484 So, your lustfulness doesn't impact your marriage? 257 00:13:53,615 --> 00:13:55,138 Not that I'm aware of. 258 00:13:55,878 --> 00:13:57,837 Your wife is hurting. Were you aware of that? 259 00:13:59,142 --> 00:14:00,056 No. 260 00:14:00,187 --> 00:14:02,189 She cries about it in private. 261 00:14:02,929 --> 00:14:04,017 She told you that? 262 00:14:04,147 --> 00:14:06,497 I'm only telling you so you understand 263 00:14:06,628 --> 00:14:07,847 how you're affecting her. 264 00:14:51,803 --> 00:14:55,372 I mean, who would do that? And how did they get my number? 265 00:14:55,503 --> 00:14:58,027 Is this the first time you've gotten a text like that? 266 00:14:58,158 --> 00:15:00,943 No. You don't think they'd come to my house, do you? 267 00:15:01,074 --> 00:15:03,467 It's probably just jealous fans. 268 00:15:03,598 --> 00:15:05,861 You know, if everybody had your parenting skills, 269 00:15:05,992 --> 00:15:08,646 they wouldn't all be watching 8 Passengers. 270 00:15:08,777 --> 00:15:10,257 You think so? 271 00:15:10,387 --> 00:15:12,433 Numbers don't lie. 272 00:15:12,563 --> 00:15:15,697 So um, how's Kevin doing? 273 00:15:15,827 --> 00:15:18,743 Good. Yeah, he says the men's sessions are going well. 274 00:15:21,094 --> 00:15:21,833 Are they not? 275 00:15:25,011 --> 00:15:27,404 I'm sorry to say but I think your husband's manipulating you. 276 00:15:28,623 --> 00:15:30,059 Really? 277 00:15:30,190 --> 00:15:32,496 He's good at projecting that he's being receptive 278 00:15:32,627 --> 00:15:35,847 but on the inside, he's not being truthful. 279 00:15:35,978 --> 00:15:37,588 Why else would he tell you it's been going good? 280 00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:41,418 Yeah um, I guess I could see that. 281 00:15:41,549 --> 00:15:45,205 When he comes home tonight, challenge him to have a real 282 00:15:45,335 --> 00:15:48,469 conversation about your feelings. About the lust, 283 00:15:48,599 --> 00:15:51,254 about the emotional toll it's taking on you. About the pain 284 00:15:51,385 --> 00:15:53,953 he's inflicting. Don't let him off the hook. 285 00:15:54,083 --> 00:15:56,390 I have to go. Be firm. 286 00:16:07,923 --> 00:16:10,186 Sorry, I woke you. 287 00:16:10,317 --> 00:16:13,059 Oh, it's okay. How was the meeting? 288 00:16:13,189 --> 00:16:15,670 To be honest, 289 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:16,801 I don't know why I'm there. 290 00:16:18,978 --> 00:16:21,328 Jodi said you might say that. 291 00:16:21,458 --> 00:16:22,503 Did she call you? 292 00:16:23,983 --> 00:16:25,506 Should she be telling you what's going on 293 00:16:25,636 --> 00:16:26,333 in these meetings? 294 00:16:28,030 --> 00:16:31,947 I mean, I thought it was a bit weird at first 295 00:16:32,078 --> 00:16:35,298 but we're married so... 296 00:16:35,429 --> 00:16:36,996 It's unconventional to me. 297 00:16:39,346 --> 00:16:41,000 Are you hiding something? 298 00:16:41,130 --> 00:16:42,001 No. 299 00:16:47,180 --> 00:16:48,572 Can we have an honest conversation about 300 00:16:48,703 --> 00:16:49,530 our relationship? 301 00:16:54,143 --> 00:16:56,276 Of course. What's wrong? 302 00:16:58,626 --> 00:17:00,454 Um... 303 00:17:02,151 --> 00:17:04,893 it feels like you'd rather have sex than talk about our son. 304 00:17:05,937 --> 00:17:06,851 Is this about the sexy lingerie? 305 00:17:06,982 --> 00:17:08,549 No, it's not just that. 306 00:17:10,029 --> 00:17:12,292 Making love should be about romance. 307 00:17:13,684 --> 00:17:15,208 Right? Not lust. Lust... 308 00:17:17,471 --> 00:17:19,864 it doesn't feel loving to me. 309 00:17:19,995 --> 00:17:23,564 Ruby, I had no idea. 310 00:17:26,219 --> 00:17:28,177 I just wanna feel like you love me. 311 00:17:28,308 --> 00:17:30,875 Oh. I love you. 312 00:17:31,876 --> 00:17:34,923 More than anything in the world. 313 00:17:36,446 --> 00:17:40,494 I'm sorry that my behavior made you feel that way. 314 00:17:42,278 --> 00:17:46,195 I would do anything to make this marriage work. 315 00:17:48,458 --> 00:17:50,156 - Okay. - Okay. 316 00:17:50,895 --> 00:17:53,072 Yeah. Thank you. 317 00:17:58,816 --> 00:18:01,471 Huh? Do you hear that? 318 00:18:04,126 --> 00:18:05,258 What is that? 319 00:18:06,041 --> 00:18:07,608 Somebody's in the house. 320 00:18:10,176 --> 00:18:11,873 Do you think it could be that person sending those texts? 321 00:18:25,321 --> 00:18:26,279 Russell? 322 00:18:27,454 --> 00:18:29,412 What on earth are you doing? 323 00:18:29,543 --> 00:18:31,545 Chad woke me up and told me to hurry up and pack 324 00:18:31,675 --> 00:18:34,461 because we're leaving for California, right now. 325 00:18:34,591 --> 00:18:37,203 Oh, buddy, not tonight. Why don't you come upstairs 326 00:18:37,333 --> 00:18:38,378 and we'll put your suitcase away? 327 00:18:40,249 --> 00:18:42,295 You think this is funny? 328 00:18:42,425 --> 00:18:44,035 Yeah, I think it's pretty funny. 329 00:18:44,166 --> 00:18:45,994 You got Russell up in the middle of the night? 330 00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:47,909 He has school in the morning. You have school in the morning. 331 00:18:48,039 --> 00:18:49,954 What's the big deal? It's a joke. 332 00:18:50,085 --> 00:18:51,869 Okay, well pal, joke's on you. You can get your blanky 333 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,480 and get your pillow and you can get out. 334 00:18:53,610 --> 00:18:55,090 Wait, what, where am I supposed to go? 335 00:18:55,221 --> 00:18:56,700 I don't care. 336 00:18:56,831 --> 00:18:58,441 You have tormented Russell for the last time. 337 00:18:58,572 --> 00:18:59,877 You can sleep anywhere in the house but here. 338 00:19:00,008 --> 00:19:01,227 Okay? Get out. 339 00:19:01,966 --> 00:19:03,272 Uh... 340 00:19:04,969 --> 00:19:06,667 Go, now. 341 00:19:12,803 --> 00:19:14,240 What? 342 00:19:14,370 --> 00:19:15,328 Nothing. 343 00:19:22,117 --> 00:19:26,643 It's a big day. Shari is coming home for the first 344 00:19:26,774 --> 00:19:30,256 time after being away at college. We're all so excited 345 00:19:30,386 --> 00:19:34,173 to see her. There she is! My first born. 346 00:19:36,958 --> 00:19:38,655 Wait a minute, is that? 347 00:19:38,786 --> 00:19:41,484 Yeah, laundry. What? At school we don't do it every day 348 00:19:41,615 --> 00:19:42,703 like you do, Mom. 349 00:19:42,833 --> 00:19:44,487 There's another one in the truck. 350 00:19:44,618 --> 00:19:45,706 But it's so good to have her home. 351 00:19:48,709 --> 00:19:50,928 It's a good thing my daughter can depend on the kindness 352 00:19:51,059 --> 00:19:51,799 of her mother. 353 00:19:54,628 --> 00:19:56,195 We missed you. 354 00:19:57,587 --> 00:19:58,675 And how's the dorm? 355 00:19:58,806 --> 00:20:00,590 - Well, my room is small. - Mm-hmm. 356 00:20:00,721 --> 00:20:03,245 Smaller than my room here. But I decorated it nicely. 357 00:20:03,376 --> 00:20:05,726 I'm just happy to be back in my bedroom. 358 00:20:06,683 --> 00:20:08,381 Hmm, I've been sleeping in the beanbag for like, 359 00:20:08,511 --> 00:20:09,904 how many months now? 360 00:20:10,034 --> 00:20:12,036 I don't think our viewers know that. 361 00:20:12,167 --> 00:20:14,125 Wait, what happened? 362 00:20:14,256 --> 00:20:17,041 Okay, I'll tell you why I lost my bedroom. So, 363 00:20:17,172 --> 00:20:19,566 basically I woke Russell up in the middle of the night. 364 00:20:19,696 --> 00:20:22,612 I told him we were going to California. He got his bags 365 00:20:22,743 --> 00:20:24,614 packed and put on his sunglasses and everything. 366 00:20:25,963 --> 00:20:27,182 You think it's funny? 367 00:20:28,662 --> 00:20:30,229 Because if you still think it's funny maybe you 368 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:31,404 don't deserve your bedroom back. 369 00:20:34,276 --> 00:20:35,408 Definitely not funny. 370 00:20:37,453 --> 00:20:38,324 Can we cut? 371 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:42,719 Okay, you know full well that we gave you the option to sleep 372 00:20:42,850 --> 00:20:45,592 anywhere in the house. You chose the beanbag. 373 00:20:58,518 --> 00:21:00,998 I talked to Lindsey today. 374 00:21:01,129 --> 00:21:03,044 She said viewership has decreased 375 00:21:03,174 --> 00:21:04,654 over the last few months. 376 00:21:04,785 --> 00:21:06,526 Oh, it's probably just seasonal. 377 00:21:06,656 --> 00:21:08,049 Yeah, maybe. 378 00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:12,183 I don't know, I worry that it has something to do with 379 00:21:12,314 --> 00:21:13,446 the negative comments. 380 00:21:17,754 --> 00:21:19,713 Oh... 381 00:21:20,453 --> 00:21:22,281 What is this? 382 00:21:24,108 --> 00:21:25,371 For my queen. 383 00:21:34,510 --> 00:21:35,816 Oh. 384 00:21:37,818 --> 00:21:39,428 This is nice. 385 00:21:39,559 --> 00:21:41,082 You said you wanted romance. 386 00:22:07,543 --> 00:22:09,153 Mom! Mom! Hurry up! 387 00:22:10,285 --> 00:22:12,287 What? Oh, my gosh, Shari, 388 00:22:12,418 --> 00:22:13,680 I thought the house was on fire. 389 00:22:13,810 --> 00:22:16,247 - You've gotta see this. - What is this? 390 00:22:16,378 --> 00:22:18,424 Well someone, someone started a petition to have you 391 00:22:18,554 --> 00:22:22,036 investigated by Child Services for being a bad mother. 392 00:22:22,166 --> 00:22:23,864 Are you kidding? 393 00:22:23,994 --> 00:22:26,780 No, it's got over 12,000 signatures. 394 00:22:26,910 --> 00:22:28,869 No, no, no, no, this is not real. This cannot be real. 395 00:22:28,999 --> 00:22:30,958 No, it's real, Mom. What did you do? 396 00:22:31,915 --> 00:22:33,743 Me? What did I do? 397 00:22:33,874 --> 00:22:35,484 I loved my family. That's what I did. 398 00:22:35,615 --> 00:22:37,268 You know that nothing is more important to me in the world 399 00:22:37,399 --> 00:22:38,574 than you guys, right? 400 00:22:38,705 --> 00:22:40,620 What's going on? 401 00:22:40,750 --> 00:22:43,187 I just... apparently they hate me now. 402 00:22:43,318 --> 00:22:45,364 - Who hates you? - The internet. 403 00:22:45,494 --> 00:22:47,627 Well, I'll check its legal merit, but still, it's not good. 404 00:22:49,019 --> 00:22:52,327 This is not good, not good. No, it's a disaster actually. 405 00:22:52,458 --> 00:22:54,198 This is gonna ruin me. This is going to destroy 406 00:22:54,329 --> 00:22:55,635 everything I built! 407 00:23:15,698 --> 00:23:16,830 Hey. 408 00:23:18,092 --> 00:23:19,702 Can I talk to you for a second? 409 00:23:19,833 --> 00:23:22,009 Yeah, of course. Do you wanna wait in the car? 410 00:23:24,054 --> 00:23:25,186 I just wanna give you an update. 411 00:23:25,316 --> 00:23:27,014 Okay. Nothing bad, I hope? 412 00:23:27,144 --> 00:23:29,320 Oh, no. Chad's making great progress. 413 00:23:29,451 --> 00:23:31,235 That's a relief. 414 00:23:31,366 --> 00:23:33,150 Well, he wouldn't have come this far this fast 415 00:23:33,281 --> 00:23:34,630 without your diligence. 416 00:23:34,761 --> 00:23:37,067 Thank you. We've been working on his focus. 417 00:23:37,198 --> 00:23:39,156 You know, I want him to feel like he can be more serious, 418 00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:40,897 rather than always the class clown. 419 00:23:41,028 --> 00:23:44,031 Right. Well, I only have an hour per session with him 420 00:23:44,161 --> 00:23:46,076 and I think we could achieve greater results 421 00:23:46,207 --> 00:23:48,427 if Chad comes in more than two times a week. 422 00:23:48,557 --> 00:23:50,472 It's just something to think about. 423 00:23:50,603 --> 00:23:54,041 Yeah, sure. Um, let me talk to Kevin. Okay? 424 00:23:54,171 --> 00:23:56,478 It's just, it's the money thing. Our viewership has decreased. 425 00:23:56,609 --> 00:23:57,827 - Hmm. - Since that whole silly 426 00:23:57,958 --> 00:24:00,961 petition campaign and it's... 427 00:24:01,091 --> 00:24:02,919 and thank heavens nothing ever came of it. 428 00:24:03,050 --> 00:24:03,964 Can I be candid? 429 00:24:04,094 --> 00:24:05,487 Of course. 430 00:24:05,618 --> 00:24:08,142 Your show, 8 Passengers, is terrific, 431 00:24:08,272 --> 00:24:10,361 but it's more of an entertainment piece. 432 00:24:10,492 --> 00:24:12,015 I see bigger things in your future. 433 00:24:13,103 --> 00:24:15,497 - Like what? - Well, you have great values. 434 00:24:15,628 --> 00:24:19,414 You have a knack for helping people. And you have the magic. 435 00:24:21,590 --> 00:24:24,288 Oh, my gosh, I... 436 00:24:24,419 --> 00:24:26,900 I don't know what to say. That means so much coming from you. 437 00:24:27,030 --> 00:24:29,555 Well, you should think about a career in mental health. 438 00:24:29,685 --> 00:24:31,470 I could not do that. 439 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,256 I mean, can I do that? I didn't, I didn't go to college. 440 00:24:35,386 --> 00:24:38,389 God gifted you a talent. It would be a sin 441 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,565 to let it go to waste. 442 00:24:43,525 --> 00:24:46,702 Hello, Passengers. I am sure you're all wondering 443 00:24:46,833 --> 00:24:49,009 what's going on, so let me catch you up. 444 00:24:49,139 --> 00:24:55,537 Shari is thrilled with college. Chad moved out and got a job. 445 00:24:55,668 --> 00:24:58,584 And Eve is getting baptized. 446 00:24:58,714 --> 00:25:00,803 My kids are growing up. 447 00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:05,895 And their lives are getting busy. So, I wanted you to know 448 00:25:06,026 --> 00:25:07,767 that I'm gonna be cutting back on the vlogging. 449 00:25:09,943 --> 00:25:12,989 My original motive for vlogging was to create a support system 450 00:25:13,120 --> 00:25:18,691 for families, for mothers, to see an example of what 451 00:25:18,821 --> 00:25:21,520 a healthy mom looks like. But lately, 452 00:25:23,260 --> 00:25:27,961 it's... been discouraging because my content has been 453 00:25:28,091 --> 00:25:30,137 twisted and distorted. 454 00:25:32,313 --> 00:25:36,360 Luckily, God has taken this painful moment in my life 455 00:25:36,491 --> 00:25:41,235 and turned lemons into lemonade. He has given me a new avenue, 456 00:25:43,019 --> 00:25:48,329 which has been just an absolute blessing in my life. 457 00:25:48,459 --> 00:25:52,376 And my family's. I'm gonna be starting some new, exciting 458 00:25:52,507 --> 00:25:55,989 mental health work, which I will get into at a later date. 459 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,470 For now, I just wanted to wish you all a merry Christmas 460 00:25:59,601 --> 00:26:01,908 and a blessed and happy new year. 461 00:26:05,389 --> 00:26:07,957 Oh, I am beat. How did that sound? 462 00:26:08,088 --> 00:26:10,046 Sounds like I'm gonna have to get a second job. 463 00:26:11,178 --> 00:26:12,614 Shari, can you get my phone? 464 00:26:12,745 --> 00:26:14,877 Yeah, I mean, we've talked about this. 465 00:26:15,008 --> 00:26:16,749 I have to be expanding my horizons. The kids don't 466 00:26:16,879 --> 00:26:18,228 wanna be in the vlog anymore. 467 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:19,926 Ruby, then we're gonna have to start tightening 468 00:26:20,056 --> 00:26:20,753 our belts around here. 469 00:26:21,492 --> 00:26:22,581 It's Jodi. 470 00:26:23,712 --> 00:26:24,974 Aunt... Jodi. 471 00:26:28,064 --> 00:26:30,153 When did we start calling her Aunt Jodi? 472 00:26:30,284 --> 00:26:32,460 Hello. How was your Christmas? 473 00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:35,942 Peacefully observant. And you? 474 00:26:36,072 --> 00:26:39,554 Overwhelming. But the kids had a terrific Christmas. 475 00:26:39,685 --> 00:26:42,078 Terrific, as in overabundance? 476 00:26:42,209 --> 00:26:46,605 Let's just say Santa brought a lot of presents. 477 00:26:46,735 --> 00:26:50,826 Hmm. Well, indulgence is the devil's candy. 478 00:26:53,263 --> 00:26:57,224 Yeah. Um, you know, I wanted to thank you for your 479 00:26:57,354 --> 00:27:00,531 emotional support with all the social media scrutiny 480 00:27:00,662 --> 00:27:01,707 over 8 Passengers. 481 00:27:01,837 --> 00:27:04,666 Oh, snowflakes. Every one of them. 482 00:27:04,797 --> 00:27:06,625 I was calling you to see if you're all set 483 00:27:06,755 --> 00:27:08,278 for your first ConneXions video? 484 00:27:08,409 --> 00:27:10,019 Absolutely. Yep. 485 00:27:10,150 --> 00:27:11,760 Couldn't have asked for a better Christmas present. 486 00:27:11,891 --> 00:27:13,414 Aside from the love of God. 487 00:27:13,544 --> 00:27:15,895 Well, I mean, of course. That goes without saying. 488 00:27:16,025 --> 00:27:18,419 Well, good. I'll see you at my house on Tuesday. 489 00:27:18,549 --> 00:27:19,899 Okay. 490 00:27:31,171 --> 00:27:32,781 I'll take out the garbage. 491 00:27:32,912 --> 00:27:35,828 No, it is not your job. 492 00:27:35,958 --> 00:27:37,656 These kids are spoiled rotten. 493 00:27:47,317 --> 00:27:49,363 You cannot indulge in materialism all day 494 00:27:49,493 --> 00:27:51,539 and not do your chores. So, you're gonna pick up this 495 00:27:51,670 --> 00:27:53,976 garbage, you're gonna put it in the trash, or every single 496 00:27:54,107 --> 00:27:56,109 one of your presents is going back to the store. 497 00:27:57,327 --> 00:27:59,025 Ruby, it's Christmas. 498 00:27:59,155 --> 00:28:01,070 Exactly. There's no better time for him to learn about 499 00:28:01,201 --> 00:28:03,420 responsibility. Okay? I want my kids to live in the truth. 500 00:28:03,551 --> 00:28:04,552 Don't you, Kevin? 501 00:28:05,248 --> 00:28:06,075 You sound like Jodi. 502 00:28:06,206 --> 00:28:07,686 Thank you. 503 00:28:07,816 --> 00:28:10,079 She's an inspiration and she approves of my parenting 504 00:28:10,210 --> 00:28:12,647 methods, unlike those idiots on the internet. 505 00:28:12,778 --> 00:28:15,084 I know this petition issue has been rough on you. 506 00:28:15,215 --> 00:28:17,304 But you've always been obsessed with being liked. 507 00:28:17,434 --> 00:28:19,785 I don't care about being liked, I care about being right. 508 00:28:19,915 --> 00:28:22,135 Please just take it slow with this Jodi project. 509 00:28:23,527 --> 00:28:25,660 - I don't wanna see you get hurt. - Oh, stop. Stop! 510 00:28:33,189 --> 00:28:34,147 - Okay, bud? - Yeah. 511 00:28:39,065 --> 00:28:41,154 I think that first part was a great set up, 512 00:28:41,284 --> 00:28:43,547 but on the next segment, we need to go deeper. 513 00:28:43,678 --> 00:28:44,984 Oh, deeper how? 514 00:28:45,114 --> 00:28:47,464 Hmm, we'll feel it out. Speak from your gut. 515 00:28:48,770 --> 00:28:49,989 You're doing great. 516 00:28:51,077 --> 00:28:52,295 - Ready? - Yep. 517 00:28:52,426 --> 00:28:53,166 All right. 518 00:29:00,086 --> 00:29:04,307 Three, two, one. Welcome back to ConneXions. 519 00:29:04,438 --> 00:29:08,659 We were talking about children and entitlement, something Ruby 520 00:29:08,790 --> 00:29:10,444 has a lot of experience with, right, Ruby? 521 00:29:10,574 --> 00:29:12,228 You bet. 522 00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:15,710 Uh, because of 8 Passengers, I felt like my kids were 523 00:29:15,841 --> 00:29:19,235 becoming entitled and swayed by the opinions of others. 524 00:29:19,366 --> 00:29:20,846 And what kind of opinions? 525 00:29:21,585 --> 00:29:25,328 Um, just some negative feedback on my parenting 526 00:29:25,459 --> 00:29:27,983 choices. But I felt like I needed to teach my kids 527 00:29:28,114 --> 00:29:30,159 that the opinions of others did not matter. 528 00:29:30,290 --> 00:29:33,380 That I was their mother. And that this is where I stood. 529 00:29:34,598 --> 00:29:36,209 So, your viewership disapproved of you? 530 00:29:39,255 --> 00:29:41,910 No, is that why you're not posting your vlog anymore? 531 00:29:43,259 --> 00:29:45,435 No, I'm, I still am, just not as much. 532 00:29:46,785 --> 00:29:49,309 Well, I guess that disapproval had a big impact on you. 533 00:29:50,963 --> 00:29:53,052 No, it was like you said, 534 00:29:53,182 --> 00:29:56,098 it was, I was losing my family to distortion. 535 00:29:56,229 --> 00:29:58,057 Well, I'd imagine if you no longer had subscribers-- 536 00:29:58,187 --> 00:30:00,189 I have subscribers. 537 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,236 Let's be honest. You were receiving hate mail. 538 00:30:03,366 --> 00:30:05,499 Your children were out of control. You were failing. 539 00:30:16,989 --> 00:30:22,342 I was making millions with my channel. 540 00:30:22,472 --> 00:30:26,825 But I backed off because my kids were being hurt. 541 00:30:27,608 --> 00:30:29,479 Hurt by entitlement. 542 00:30:30,916 --> 00:30:31,786 And now? 543 00:30:33,483 --> 00:30:34,920 They're seeing truth and loving it. 544 00:30:36,095 --> 00:30:37,531 You saved them. 545 00:30:38,271 --> 00:30:39,315 Yes. 546 00:30:40,142 --> 00:30:40,969 I did. 547 00:30:42,797 --> 00:30:45,191 And not just them. Now you've been liberated 548 00:30:45,321 --> 00:30:46,670 by the truth yourself, right? 549 00:30:48,498 --> 00:30:49,717 Yeah, I guess that's true. 550 00:30:51,806 --> 00:30:55,810 Truth. If you're interested in finding truth in your life, 551 00:30:55,941 --> 00:30:58,769 we still have tickets left for our family conference 552 00:30:58,900 --> 00:31:01,642 in Phoenix next weekend. And just go to our website 553 00:31:01,772 --> 00:31:04,036 and order now. We hope to see you there. 554 00:31:08,605 --> 00:31:10,390 You were spectacular. 555 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,914 - So sincere. - You caught me off guard. 556 00:31:13,045 --> 00:31:15,786 Well, you rolled with it. You're so comfortable on camera. 557 00:31:15,917 --> 00:31:17,658 I knew you'd be perfect as my co-host. 558 00:31:17,788 --> 00:31:19,660 I don't know, I feel like I came off as unlikeable. 559 00:31:19,790 --> 00:31:22,010 Oh, not at all. 560 00:31:23,359 --> 00:31:25,405 If we do this, you're gonna have to trust me. 561 00:31:26,972 --> 00:31:27,755 - Okay. - Okay. 562 00:31:36,459 --> 00:31:38,722 Jodi? 563 00:31:38,853 --> 00:31:40,768 Have you seen the response to our first video? 564 00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:42,465 Oh! The comments are through the roof. 565 00:31:42,596 --> 00:31:43,553 Did they like us? 566 00:31:43,684 --> 00:31:45,164 - They love us! - Who is that? 567 00:31:45,294 --> 00:31:47,122 It's the middle of the night for crying out loud. 568 00:31:47,253 --> 00:31:48,384 It's Jodi. Just go back to sleep. 569 00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:50,256 I'm sorry to interrupt. 570 00:31:50,386 --> 00:31:52,345 I forget other people have families. 571 00:31:52,475 --> 00:31:53,955 Oh no, it's fine. Don't worry about it. 572 00:31:54,086 --> 00:31:56,523 Logging on to the site right now. 573 00:31:56,653 --> 00:31:58,742 This proves we're delivering the message. 574 00:31:58,873 --> 00:32:01,658 Now we need to get some of your 8 Passengers subscribers 575 00:32:01,789 --> 00:32:03,747 to sign up for memberships. 576 00:32:03,878 --> 00:32:05,706 Of course, of course. Yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever I can do 577 00:32:05,836 --> 00:32:09,362 to help. Um... this is so exciting! 578 00:32:09,492 --> 00:32:12,843 Yeah! I mean it must be so gratifying to know that 579 00:32:12,974 --> 00:32:15,716 you're finally accomplishing something important. 580 00:32:25,552 --> 00:32:27,902 Wasn't Jodi's speech inspiring? 581 00:32:28,033 --> 00:32:30,426 She is so motivating. I'm tingling. 582 00:32:30,557 --> 00:32:32,733 I mean, no wonder she has so many followers. 583 00:32:32,863 --> 00:32:35,431 I'm surprised Connie or Braxton aren't here. 584 00:32:35,562 --> 00:32:37,781 Matter of fact, he missed the last group session. 585 00:32:37,912 --> 00:32:39,131 Have any of you heard from them? 586 00:32:41,046 --> 00:32:42,612 Jodi Hildebrandt's a liar! 587 00:32:44,266 --> 00:32:47,704 You're a fraud! Everything you do, it's a lie! 588 00:32:48,836 --> 00:32:51,056 She ruined my life. She's gonna ruin yours! 589 00:32:51,186 --> 00:32:53,145 You're not a therapist! 590 00:32:53,275 --> 00:32:55,974 You should be in jail for what you've done! 591 00:32:56,104 --> 00:32:57,976 You don't help families, you hurt them! 592 00:32:59,238 --> 00:33:00,979 Get out from the shadows! 593 00:33:07,855 --> 00:33:10,075 I'm... I'm gonna go see if Jodi's okay. 594 00:33:11,511 --> 00:33:12,338 Who was that? 595 00:33:14,253 --> 00:33:16,211 That was James Pratt. He's a little unstable. 596 00:33:16,342 --> 00:33:18,605 After his divorce, he was ex-communicated. 597 00:33:18,735 --> 00:33:22,391 Apparently he sexually abused the kids. 598 00:33:22,522 --> 00:33:23,305 I thought he moved to Idaho. 599 00:33:26,091 --> 00:33:27,527 - I need to talk to you. - Yeah. 600 00:33:27,657 --> 00:33:29,007 Alone. I'm so sorry. Excuse us. 601 00:33:32,532 --> 00:33:35,317 That really set Jodi off and she was not in a good place 602 00:33:35,448 --> 00:33:37,015 to begin with. - About what? 603 00:33:40,105 --> 00:33:42,194 She thinks she's being haunted by shadow figures at night. 604 00:33:43,804 --> 00:33:46,024 Kevin, I'm serious, she's scared and she does not wanna be alone. 605 00:33:47,677 --> 00:33:48,765 When did this start? 606 00:33:50,028 --> 00:33:53,118 Last week, I guess. She doesn't remember. 607 00:33:53,248 --> 00:33:55,381 I mean, she's been working day and night. 608 00:33:55,511 --> 00:33:57,513 I feel so bad for her, you know? 609 00:33:57,644 --> 00:34:00,212 I can tell she's pushing through but it's getting to her. 610 00:34:00,342 --> 00:34:01,909 Shouldn't she reach out to the church? 611 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:02,997 She's got plenty of support. 612 00:34:03,128 --> 00:34:04,390 She says she only trusts me. 613 00:34:05,869 --> 00:34:08,046 Okay. Uh, how can we help? 614 00:34:11,136 --> 00:34:12,311 She wants to come live with us. 615 00:34:12,441 --> 00:34:13,225 In our house? 616 00:34:13,355 --> 00:34:15,140 Just for a short while. 617 00:34:15,270 --> 00:34:16,663 I don't feel comfortable with that. 618 00:34:16,793 --> 00:34:19,405 - What about the kids? - The kids will be fine. 619 00:34:19,535 --> 00:34:21,711 She can stay in Shari's room. There's plenty of space. 620 00:34:24,105 --> 00:34:27,065 Frankly, Ruby, I think Jodi needs therapy. 621 00:34:29,023 --> 00:34:31,634 Why are you being so insensitive to somebody in need? 622 00:34:31,765 --> 00:34:34,289 I'm not. But level with me. 623 00:34:34,420 --> 00:34:36,596 Why does she have to come to our house? 624 00:34:36,726 --> 00:34:37,901 What is she so afraid of? 625 00:34:41,731 --> 00:34:45,344 She thinks she's being possessed. By Satan. 626 00:34:52,307 --> 00:34:55,528 Mommy, I'm hungry. 627 00:34:55,658 --> 00:34:58,574 No, honey, you know the deal, okay? Auntie Jodi needs quiet. 628 00:34:58,705 --> 00:35:00,968 You guys will eat after, okay? Go back to the family room. 629 00:35:05,451 --> 00:35:06,887 Oy. 630 00:35:07,017 --> 00:35:08,932 Those migraines seem to be getting worse. 631 00:35:09,063 --> 00:35:12,284 Oh, it's like Satan is driving a stake through my head. 632 00:35:12,414 --> 00:35:13,502 I'm gonna get a cold compress. 633 00:35:13,633 --> 00:35:16,070 Oh, no, no, no, don't. I'll be okay. Sit. 634 00:35:18,072 --> 00:35:22,424 I talked to Susan today and she said ConneXions has seen 635 00:35:22,555 --> 00:35:25,210 a large uptick in membership since the conference. 636 00:35:25,340 --> 00:35:26,863 Congratulations. 637 00:35:26,994 --> 00:35:28,996 Yeah. I knew it would only be a matter of time. 638 00:35:30,171 --> 00:35:31,129 We should eat. 639 00:35:34,088 --> 00:35:37,309 Lord, thank you for this meal, and for showing 640 00:35:37,439 --> 00:35:41,400 my dear friend, Ruby, the path to my door when she was in need. 641 00:35:42,749 --> 00:35:43,576 Amen. 642 00:35:46,579 --> 00:35:48,798 Nice. 643 00:35:48,929 --> 00:35:52,062 Daddy, I'm hungry. 644 00:35:52,193 --> 00:35:54,282 Yeah, Dad, how much longer we gonna do this? 645 00:35:55,979 --> 00:35:57,764 Until Auntie Jodi feels better, okay? 646 00:36:01,768 --> 00:36:04,031 - I wanna try. - No, it's mine. 647 00:36:04,162 --> 00:36:06,164 - Hey, hey guys-- - I'm younger! 648 00:36:06,294 --> 00:36:07,600 - I'm older! - Cut it out. 649 00:36:07,730 --> 00:36:09,515 - Russell, Eve. - I'm shorter! 650 00:36:09,645 --> 00:36:12,039 You had it the whole, entire time. 651 00:36:12,170 --> 00:36:13,562 - No. - I'm younger! 652 00:36:13,693 --> 00:36:15,608 Hey guys, guys, cut it out. Cut it out. 653 00:36:18,132 --> 00:36:19,742 Lights are out! 654 00:36:19,873 --> 00:36:22,310 Great. Now how am I gonna do my homework? 655 00:36:22,441 --> 00:36:24,617 Everything's gonna be okay, guys. Russell, Eve, 656 00:36:24,747 --> 00:36:25,487 not in the dark. 657 00:36:25,618 --> 00:36:27,924 - No! - Russell, Eve. 658 00:36:29,622 --> 00:36:31,624 Don't panic, it's probably just a breaker. 659 00:36:31,754 --> 00:36:32,755 Come with me, guys. 660 00:36:36,977 --> 00:36:38,108 I'll check the electrical box. 661 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,067 Thank you. Oh no, Russell, we don't 662 00:36:40,198 --> 00:36:41,503 do that in here. Eve, Eve, don't chase 663 00:36:41,634 --> 00:36:43,201 your brother, okay? - Mom, where's my tablet? 664 00:36:43,331 --> 00:36:44,593 - I don't know. - I'm in charge! 665 00:36:44,724 --> 00:36:45,986 Keep it down. Guys, guys. 666 00:36:46,116 --> 00:36:47,553 Can I have some lasagna? 667 00:36:47,683 --> 00:36:49,511 - I'm really hungry. - You cannot. Eve. 668 00:36:49,642 --> 00:36:51,165 You can't catch me! You can't catch me! 669 00:36:51,296 --> 00:36:52,601 Guys, stop. Guys, are you listening to me? 670 00:36:52,732 --> 00:36:54,821 You've gotta keep it down. Get outta here, okay? 671 00:36:54,951 --> 00:36:57,040 Go back in the family room, please. 672 00:36:58,390 --> 00:36:59,739 Satan out! 673 00:37:00,653 --> 00:37:01,393 Ah! 674 00:37:02,568 --> 00:37:04,831 Kevin. Kevin? 675 00:37:04,961 --> 00:37:06,572 Come now, Kevin. 676 00:37:15,755 --> 00:37:18,845 - What the hell was that? - Shh! Language. 677 00:37:18,975 --> 00:37:22,370 Don't language me. This woman just stabbed herself 678 00:37:22,501 --> 00:37:23,893 in front of our children. 679 00:37:24,024 --> 00:37:25,460 It was clearly a cry for help. 680 00:37:25,591 --> 00:37:28,071 I don't care what it was. She has to leave. 681 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,510 She's not ready. 682 00:37:32,467 --> 00:37:35,340 Ruby? Ruby? He's coming for me. 683 00:37:39,387 --> 00:37:40,910 I am not sending her out into the world in that state. 684 00:37:51,834 --> 00:37:53,401 Where are you going? 685 00:37:53,532 --> 00:37:55,447 Um, I'm staying up in Jodi's room. 686 00:37:56,535 --> 00:37:59,407 - What? Why? - Well, her episodes 687 00:37:59,538 --> 00:38:01,496 are becoming more frequent, like every hour, and I think 688 00:38:01,627 --> 00:38:03,455 it's just better if I stay up there to help her through them. 689 00:38:03,585 --> 00:38:04,630 You're gonna sleep in the same bed? 690 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,893 Yeah. Yeah, it's a queen size. 691 00:38:07,023 --> 00:38:08,286 There's plenty of space for both of us. 692 00:38:08,416 --> 00:38:10,723 Ruby, you look exhausted. 693 00:38:10,853 --> 00:38:12,638 You haven't posted on 8 Passengers in a while. 694 00:38:12,768 --> 00:38:15,205 The kids are being neglected. You're spending all of your time 695 00:38:15,336 --> 00:38:17,295 with Jodi. - Because she needs me. 696 00:38:17,425 --> 00:38:19,035 Meanwhile, this house is being turned upside down. 697 00:38:22,343 --> 00:38:23,823 Okay. 698 00:38:25,433 --> 00:38:26,608 There's something I haven't told you. 699 00:38:30,830 --> 00:38:32,310 I've been having heavenly visions. 700 00:38:33,789 --> 00:38:35,182 Of what? 701 00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:37,097 The angel of the Lord came to me. 702 00:38:37,227 --> 00:38:39,578 He spoke to me. 703 00:38:39,708 --> 00:38:42,929 And he told me that we have work to do for God. 704 00:38:44,539 --> 00:38:45,410 You don't believe me? 705 00:38:46,367 --> 00:38:47,716 No. No, of course I do. 706 00:38:47,847 --> 00:38:51,416 Well, this work that the angel spoke of, 707 00:38:51,546 --> 00:38:56,159 you are a part of it, too. This whole family is. 708 00:38:56,290 --> 00:38:58,336 And none of it would have happened if it wasn't for Jodi. 709 00:39:02,209 --> 00:39:03,602 Well then, we have been blessed. 710 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:06,692 Yeah. 711 00:39:12,785 --> 00:39:15,570 Your mother misses you. You should come home more often. 712 00:39:15,701 --> 00:39:19,966 I know but I've been busy with recitals and midterms. 713 00:39:20,096 --> 00:39:23,099 Midterms have been over for a month. 714 00:39:23,230 --> 00:39:26,799 What's up? You and your mother used to be so close. 715 00:39:31,543 --> 00:39:32,239 I know. 716 00:39:35,329 --> 00:39:36,156 Promise you won't tell Mom? 717 00:39:38,506 --> 00:39:40,769 But sometimes I feel... 718 00:39:40,900 --> 00:39:42,031 weird there. 719 00:39:43,250 --> 00:39:46,384 Like, home isn't home anymore. 720 00:39:48,603 --> 00:39:49,387 Jodi. 721 00:39:50,213 --> 00:39:51,040 Yeah. 722 00:39:52,781 --> 00:39:56,742 I tried but I don't agree with her idea of therapy. 723 00:39:56,872 --> 00:39:59,832 Leaves me spiritually drained. 724 00:40:01,486 --> 00:40:03,444 Maybe it'll make more sense in a few years. 725 00:40:03,575 --> 00:40:05,011 After you've had a relationship. 726 00:40:07,274 --> 00:40:09,058 Do you feel like she's helping you? 727 00:40:09,189 --> 00:40:11,844 She has, with some of the problems your mother and I 728 00:40:11,974 --> 00:40:14,586 were having, but, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't 729 00:40:14,716 --> 00:40:16,283 have my doubts about Jodi. 730 00:40:18,285 --> 00:40:19,373 Does Mom have doubts? 731 00:40:21,549 --> 00:40:23,377 - Kevin. - Braxton. 732 00:40:23,508 --> 00:40:24,596 - Oh, hey. - Hi. 733 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,772 It's been a while. Hey. 734 00:40:26,902 --> 00:40:28,208 You remember my daughter, Shari? 735 00:40:28,338 --> 00:40:29,339 - Yeah. Hi. - Hi, Mr. Young. 736 00:40:29,470 --> 00:40:30,950 I was just leaving. 737 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,604 - Oh. - I'll see ya later, Dad. 738 00:40:35,084 --> 00:40:36,216 Love you, kid. 739 00:40:37,478 --> 00:40:38,610 - Have a seat. - Yeah. 740 00:40:40,002 --> 00:40:41,395 I thought I would have run into you 741 00:40:41,526 --> 00:40:42,788 at the therapy conference. 742 00:40:42,918 --> 00:40:45,051 Yeah, well, um... 743 00:40:46,531 --> 00:40:47,706 Jodi's not our therapist anymore 744 00:40:47,836 --> 00:40:49,272 so there's no reason to go to Phoenix. 745 00:40:49,403 --> 00:40:50,622 Really? 746 00:40:51,623 --> 00:40:53,451 I thought you were a disciple. What happened? 747 00:40:53,581 --> 00:40:55,844 I mean, you know how it is, right? 748 00:40:55,975 --> 00:40:57,716 Look, she's a very powerful voice in the church. 749 00:40:57,846 --> 00:40:59,326 I, I'd rather not say. 750 00:40:59,457 --> 00:41:01,067 Trust me, 751 00:41:01,197 --> 00:41:03,373 you have my confidence. 752 00:41:03,504 --> 00:41:06,159 I have my own doubts about Jodi's methods. 753 00:41:06,289 --> 00:41:07,203 For real? 754 00:41:10,424 --> 00:41:13,079 Uh... okay, well, 755 00:41:13,209 --> 00:41:15,734 it started about six months ago. Jodi approached Connie 756 00:41:15,864 --> 00:41:17,779 and asked her if she could move in with us. 757 00:41:17,910 --> 00:41:21,348 Said that she was, and I wanna get this right here, 758 00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:23,655 seeing shadow figures at night. 759 00:41:23,785 --> 00:41:25,657 - Are you serious? - Yeah. 760 00:41:25,787 --> 00:41:28,442 So, she moves in, starts turning the house upside down. 761 00:41:28,573 --> 00:41:30,531 Connie's with her every minute. I, I don't stand a chance. 762 00:41:30,662 --> 00:41:32,054 The next thing I know, the two of them are-- 763 00:41:32,185 --> 00:41:33,621 Sleeping in the same bedroom. 764 00:41:33,752 --> 00:41:35,449 Wait, yeah, how do you know that? 765 00:41:35,580 --> 00:41:37,495 She's living with us right now. 766 00:41:37,625 --> 00:41:39,497 The same stuff is happening. 767 00:41:39,627 --> 00:41:40,759 It's about to get worse. 768 00:41:42,456 --> 00:41:44,110 I think that her intent was to turn Connie against me 769 00:41:44,240 --> 00:41:47,505 to wreck our marriage. I mean, she uses the faith to brainwash 770 00:41:47,635 --> 00:41:50,116 people. And we're not the only ones. I heard stories of other 771 00:41:50,246 --> 00:41:52,727 couples that she treated, some of them lost their jobs 772 00:41:52,858 --> 00:41:55,208 and went bankrupt because of her. That's... 773 00:41:55,338 --> 00:41:57,123 that's how cults are started. 774 00:41:57,253 --> 00:41:59,517 - She's a cult leader. - Well, I have to get her out. 775 00:41:59,647 --> 00:42:02,345 Honestly, if it's not too late, my advice to you 776 00:42:02,476 --> 00:42:05,784 is just stay on Jodi's good side because if you cross her, 777 00:42:05,914 --> 00:42:07,394 she's only gonna make it worse for you. 778 00:42:17,404 --> 00:42:18,797 Oh, that's healing nicely. 779 00:42:18,927 --> 00:42:20,799 - Oh, it's still very painful. - Yeah. 780 00:42:24,237 --> 00:42:26,979 Oh, almost out of peroxide. 781 00:42:27,109 --> 00:42:28,197 I'll get Kevin to pick up some more. 782 00:42:29,634 --> 00:42:31,723 Your husband doesn't seem to be taking any of this 783 00:42:31,853 --> 00:42:34,377 very seriously. Our work here, your marriage. 784 00:42:35,074 --> 00:42:36,771 I thought he was really trying. 785 00:42:36,902 --> 00:42:39,426 No, he's not. I wouldn't be in this state if he was. 786 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:42,429 All he was asked to do was to keep the children quiet. 787 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,300 - He couldn't even do that. - I, I know 788 00:42:44,431 --> 00:42:46,128 that he is truly sorry about that. 789 00:42:46,259 --> 00:42:49,392 No, he's just so darn good at manipulating you. 790 00:42:50,829 --> 00:42:53,179 You don't see it, do you? 791 00:42:53,309 --> 00:42:55,442 His mind couldn't be further away from you or this family. 792 00:42:56,922 --> 00:43:00,099 If you wanna save your marriage, you need to stop defending him. 793 00:43:03,537 --> 00:43:07,367 Okay. So, what do I do? 794 00:43:07,497 --> 00:43:09,717 We need to take him out of his comfort zone. 795 00:43:18,073 --> 00:43:19,466 I need to talk to you about Jodi. 796 00:43:22,121 --> 00:43:26,168 Good. 'Cause I need to talk to you about Jodi. 797 00:43:26,299 --> 00:43:28,780 I ran into Braxton Young today and he had some... 798 00:43:28,910 --> 00:43:30,216 negative things to say about her. 799 00:43:30,346 --> 00:43:31,478 Such as? 800 00:43:33,436 --> 00:43:34,133 She's done this before. She tried to ruin their marriage 801 00:43:34,263 --> 00:43:35,395 and many others. 802 00:43:35,525 --> 00:43:36,439 Braxton Young is an infidel. 803 00:43:36,570 --> 00:43:38,224 Where'd you get that from? 804 00:43:38,354 --> 00:43:40,530 Jodi told me that Connie and Braxton kidnapped her 805 00:43:40,661 --> 00:43:42,532 and held her hostage. 806 00:43:42,663 --> 00:43:45,535 Ruby, this is starting to sound crazy. 807 00:43:45,666 --> 00:43:47,059 You know what's crazy? 808 00:43:47,189 --> 00:43:49,191 Is your lack of interest in saving this marriage. 809 00:43:49,322 --> 00:43:51,324 I didn't realize our marriage needed saving! 810 00:43:51,454 --> 00:43:53,935 A relationship needs to die before it can be reborn. 811 00:43:54,066 --> 00:43:55,154 Says Jodi, I'm guessing. 812 00:43:56,590 --> 00:43:58,592 It's shocking to me that it seems like Jodi is more 813 00:43:58,723 --> 00:43:59,898 committed to saving this marriage, than you. 814 00:44:00,028 --> 00:44:01,595 How else do you think she affords that 815 00:44:01,726 --> 00:44:03,292 five million dollar house? - You know what? Maybe I should 816 00:44:03,423 --> 00:44:05,077 just take the kids and leave. 817 00:44:06,295 --> 00:44:09,516 Whoa, whoa, whoa. Ruby, honey, 818 00:44:09,647 --> 00:44:11,866 I love you. I don't want you to leave. 819 00:44:11,997 --> 00:44:14,739 I love you too, but there are serious problems in this 820 00:44:14,869 --> 00:44:17,742 marriage that we need to start addressing. So... 821 00:44:20,048 --> 00:44:21,833 are you willing to do the hard work? 822 00:44:22,529 --> 00:44:23,835 Yes, of course. 823 00:44:26,925 --> 00:44:29,231 Well then, there are terms. 824 00:44:29,362 --> 00:44:31,364 Jodi wants us to have an in-house separation. 825 00:44:31,494 --> 00:44:33,235 - An in-house what? - Separation. 826 00:44:33,366 --> 00:44:35,716 So, to begin with, we need to set boundaries. 827 00:44:35,847 --> 00:44:37,152 This is nuts. 828 00:44:37,283 --> 00:44:39,546 Meaning that for the foreseeable future, 829 00:44:39,677 --> 00:44:40,765 you will be confined to the downstairs. 830 00:44:40,895 --> 00:44:42,418 But this is my house! 831 00:44:42,549 --> 00:44:44,464 Number two... 832 00:44:44,594 --> 00:44:47,728 the kitchen will be off limits to you between 6 pm and 6 am. 833 00:44:47,859 --> 00:44:49,687 How does going into the kitchen affect our marriage? 834 00:44:49,817 --> 00:44:52,602 Finally, Kevin, communication between the two of us 835 00:44:52,733 --> 00:44:53,691 needs to be limited. 836 00:44:54,213 --> 00:44:54,996 Limited how? 837 00:44:55,127 --> 00:44:56,041 To one hour a day. 838 00:44:59,174 --> 00:44:59,958 Really? 839 00:45:06,051 --> 00:45:07,705 Look... 840 00:45:07,835 --> 00:45:10,316 I had my doubts too, okay? 841 00:45:11,578 --> 00:45:14,668 But Jodi has saved countless marriages. She is a hero 842 00:45:14,799 --> 00:45:17,845 in our community, and I believe in my heart, 843 00:45:17,976 --> 00:45:19,064 that this will work. 844 00:45:21,196 --> 00:45:22,850 Because I believe in Jodi. 845 00:45:26,506 --> 00:45:28,508 Well, I believe in you. 846 00:45:30,031 --> 00:45:34,122 If you really wanna try this, I'll do it 847 00:45:34,253 --> 00:45:38,431 but only for a week. And then Jodi has to be out. 848 00:45:41,869 --> 00:45:43,697 Mm-hmm. 849 00:46:11,856 --> 00:46:13,031 I didn't hear you. 850 00:46:15,207 --> 00:46:18,253 You have no respect for boundaries, do you, Kevin? 851 00:46:20,168 --> 00:46:22,214 I didn't know I needed boundaries in my own home. 852 00:46:27,349 --> 00:46:30,396 My ex-husband had no respect for boundaries either. 853 00:46:30,526 --> 00:46:33,529 I feel it's a male domination problem. 854 00:46:33,660 --> 00:46:36,402 Centuries in the making. 855 00:46:36,532 --> 00:46:39,840 I mean, it's really why wars are fought, isn't it? 856 00:46:39,971 --> 00:46:42,103 Men not respecting boundaries? 857 00:46:53,854 --> 00:46:56,683 Respect boundaries, people won't get hurt. 858 00:46:56,814 --> 00:46:58,337 I think you need to leave. 859 00:47:09,609 --> 00:47:10,740 - Oh. - Oh, we're all gonna 860 00:47:10,871 --> 00:47:11,829 miss you so much. 861 00:47:13,656 --> 00:47:15,615 Thank you. The time I've spent here has been invaluable. 862 00:47:15,745 --> 00:47:17,182 Mm-hmm. I'll see you on the 15th? 863 00:47:17,312 --> 00:47:19,010 I have the whole weekend cleared. 864 00:47:19,140 --> 00:47:20,533 Great. Oh, and don't forget to call your lawyer. 865 00:47:21,142 --> 00:47:22,187 I already did. 866 00:47:23,144 --> 00:47:24,842 I'll see you in group. 867 00:47:43,425 --> 00:47:45,123 Finally we can get back to normal. 868 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,476 Hey, Lindsey. 869 00:47:50,606 --> 00:47:52,391 I just wanted to sa, you were always 870 00:47:52,521 --> 00:47:55,046 a fair person to deal with and I wish you luck in the future. 871 00:47:56,395 --> 00:47:58,310 Uh, I'm sorry, what's this about? 872 00:47:58,440 --> 00:47:59,920 Ruby fired me this morning. 873 00:48:03,619 --> 00:48:05,317 What are you doing? 874 00:48:05,447 --> 00:48:08,276 I am sick and tired of being scrutinized by everybody, 875 00:48:08,407 --> 00:48:10,017 from the neighbors to the media. 876 00:48:10,148 --> 00:48:11,889 I'm talking about the 8 Passengers channel. 877 00:48:12,019 --> 00:48:13,760 Lindsey said you fired her. 878 00:48:13,891 --> 00:48:15,370 Yeah, that's because I just decided 879 00:48:15,501 --> 00:48:16,894 I'm not doing the vlog anymore. 880 00:48:17,938 --> 00:48:19,940 Why? Any extra income we have is still coming 881 00:48:20,071 --> 00:48:21,855 from that channel. - Actually, a large 882 00:48:21,986 --> 00:48:23,726 portion of the viewership from 8 Passengers 883 00:48:23,857 --> 00:48:25,293 has gone over to ConneXions and we wanna keep exposing 884 00:48:25,424 --> 00:48:27,252 them to Jodi's methodology. 885 00:48:27,382 --> 00:48:29,123 But you're not getting any of that money. You signed 886 00:48:29,254 --> 00:48:30,733 over the 8 Passenger rights to Jodi. 887 00:48:30,864 --> 00:48:34,563 Ruby, you created a brand. We had over 2.5 million viewers. 888 00:48:34,694 --> 00:48:37,131 People respected you. We were making a decent living. 889 00:48:37,262 --> 00:48:40,221 Kevin, it's not about the money. 890 00:48:40,352 --> 00:48:42,876 Okay? Do you remember when I told you that we have to work 891 00:48:43,007 --> 00:48:44,225 to do for God? 892 00:48:45,531 --> 00:48:48,186 This... this is the work. 893 00:48:51,841 --> 00:48:54,540 God wants you to destroy your business? Are you sure that 894 00:48:54,670 --> 00:48:55,802 isn't what Jodi wants? 895 00:48:55,933 --> 00:48:57,586 Jodi is God's messenger. 896 00:49:00,676 --> 00:49:03,462 Let me ask you something. What were you and Jodi doing up 897 00:49:03,592 --> 00:49:05,116 in that room all the time she was here? 898 00:49:05,246 --> 00:49:07,074 I told you, we were having interventions. 899 00:49:07,205 --> 00:49:08,771 Am I supposed to believe that? 900 00:49:08,902 --> 00:49:10,773 Okay, what are you insinuating? 901 00:49:12,819 --> 00:49:15,300 Nothing. Let's just take a breath 902 00:49:15,430 --> 00:49:17,215 and think about what we're doing. 903 00:49:17,345 --> 00:49:18,999 I don't need to take a breath. I've already decided 904 00:49:19,130 --> 00:49:21,001 what I'm doing. - Without consulting me? 905 00:49:21,132 --> 00:49:22,524 Yes. And you know what? Jodi's right. 906 00:49:22,655 --> 00:49:25,049 You are just as manipulative and just as selfish 907 00:49:25,179 --> 00:49:26,746 as when we started therapy. 908 00:49:26,876 --> 00:49:29,749 It is time you start doing what is right for this family. 909 00:49:29,879 --> 00:49:32,534 Everything I do is for this family! 910 00:49:32,665 --> 00:49:34,580 Jodi says the in-house separation isn't enough. 911 00:49:35,407 --> 00:49:36,103 Meaning? 912 00:49:36,234 --> 00:49:37,104 Meaning... 913 00:49:40,064 --> 00:49:41,674 you need to leave. 914 00:49:41,804 --> 00:49:42,936 Leave how? 915 00:49:43,067 --> 00:49:44,242 Leave. 916 00:49:44,372 --> 00:49:45,460 You mean move out? 917 00:49:45,591 --> 00:49:48,028 Yeah. 918 00:49:48,159 --> 00:49:50,074 And until further notice, for their spiritual safety, 919 00:49:50,204 --> 00:49:51,684 you will have no more contact with the children. 920 00:49:51,814 --> 00:49:55,166 I'm not gonna do that. I love you. I love this family. 921 00:49:55,296 --> 00:49:56,515 Well, it's either that or a divorce. 922 00:49:58,386 --> 00:50:00,084 I'm sorry, I cannot keep living with things 923 00:50:00,214 --> 00:50:00,867 the way they are. 924 00:50:02,477 --> 00:50:04,784 Don't do this, Ruby. Don't do this. 925 00:50:04,914 --> 00:50:05,828 No. 926 00:50:13,140 --> 00:50:17,188 Safety is the foundation in which trust is possible. 927 00:50:17,318 --> 00:50:21,105 We have to generate trust within ourselves before we can offer 928 00:50:21,235 --> 00:50:22,802 trust to those we love. 929 00:50:24,282 --> 00:50:26,371 If your wife trusts you, then there's safety in your 930 00:50:26,501 --> 00:50:30,157 relationship. No more distortion. There's only truth, 931 00:50:30,288 --> 00:50:34,118 and love, and safety, and responsibility. 932 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,472 Does that clarify things for you, Kevin? 933 00:50:42,474 --> 00:50:44,519 You don't seem convinced. 934 00:50:44,650 --> 00:50:46,043 I mean, I don't understand why you're not getting it? 935 00:50:46,739 --> 00:50:48,306 I, I get it. 936 00:50:48,436 --> 00:50:50,221 And yet, you're not changing for the better? 937 00:50:51,396 --> 00:50:53,137 Well, I'm not sure I know what that means and I'm not 938 00:50:53,267 --> 00:50:55,487 sure anyone in the meeting knows what that means. 939 00:50:56,227 --> 00:50:59,708 Stay in your lane, Kevin! This is about you! 940 00:50:59,839 --> 00:51:02,798 I'd like to be brutally honest. I have serious doubts 941 00:51:02,929 --> 00:51:03,886 about your sincerity. 942 00:51:04,844 --> 00:51:06,628 You are still a manipulative liar. 943 00:51:07,977 --> 00:51:10,806 I've done everything you've asked me to do 944 00:51:10,937 --> 00:51:13,722 from day one and you still don't approve of me. 945 00:51:14,462 --> 00:51:15,855 Your words. Not mine. 946 00:51:17,335 --> 00:51:19,989 I'd like you to stop attending my men's sessions. 947 00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:24,081 Your influence on the group is toxic. 948 00:51:29,956 --> 00:51:31,088 You're not being fair. 949 00:51:33,002 --> 00:51:34,700 You know what's fair? I had to ask God what to do with you 950 00:51:34,830 --> 00:51:37,572 and he told me you have to have complete solitude with him. 951 00:51:40,227 --> 00:51:42,795 I can't be any more alone than I am already. 952 00:51:44,579 --> 00:51:47,147 What do I have to do to get my family back? 953 00:51:47,278 --> 00:51:48,105 Kevin, where is your faith? 954 00:51:49,758 --> 00:51:50,803 You're in God's hands now. 955 00:51:52,805 --> 00:51:53,893 Please leave. 956 00:51:59,681 --> 00:52:01,466 It is so nice to see you in person. 957 00:52:01,596 --> 00:52:05,165 Aw. Honey, you look tired. 958 00:52:05,296 --> 00:52:07,124 Yeah, well, I haven't been sleeping too well lately. 959 00:52:07,254 --> 00:52:09,430 Yeah, I know. Me neither. 960 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,520 Bed's too big for one person. 961 00:52:12,651 --> 00:52:14,043 Well, we can always change that. 962 00:52:14,174 --> 00:52:17,090 Okay. Easy there, tiger. 963 00:52:20,049 --> 00:52:22,487 Fair enough. What is it you wanted to see me about? 964 00:52:22,617 --> 00:52:24,837 I was wondering if you would sign over the title of the car 965 00:52:24,967 --> 00:52:25,838 and the van? 966 00:52:26,795 --> 00:52:28,014 Why now? 967 00:52:28,145 --> 00:52:30,712 I want it in my name. I worked hard 968 00:52:30,843 --> 00:52:32,975 and it makes me feel good to know I achieved something. 969 00:52:34,325 --> 00:52:36,240 I was hoping you just wanted to see me. 970 00:52:37,589 --> 00:52:39,025 I always wanna see you. 971 00:52:50,123 --> 00:52:51,733 You know I would never take advantage of you. 972 00:52:51,864 --> 00:52:54,171 Oh, I know that. You're one of the good guys. 973 00:52:55,084 --> 00:52:56,129 How are the kids? 974 00:53:00,307 --> 00:53:02,353 Kevin, we had an agreement. You said you trusted me. 975 00:53:03,876 --> 00:53:05,704 I do, but I miss everyone. 976 00:53:07,793 --> 00:53:08,620 They're fine. 977 00:53:08,750 --> 00:53:10,056 Do they ask about me? 978 00:53:17,890 --> 00:53:19,457 Ruby... 979 00:53:21,763 --> 00:53:23,461 I thought you were gonna ask me to come home. 980 00:53:23,591 --> 00:53:27,160 No. You know what you need to do. 981 00:53:27,291 --> 00:53:30,163 But I don't. We keep going around and around and nothing 982 00:53:30,294 --> 00:53:33,079 ever changes. Only now, I feel like I'm abandoning my family. 983 00:53:33,210 --> 00:53:35,124 Okay, okay, you wanna help your family? We need more 984 00:53:35,255 --> 00:53:37,823 money. Russell needs to go camp. Eve needs braces. 985 00:53:39,085 --> 00:53:42,044 All right. I'll take care of it. 986 00:53:42,175 --> 00:53:43,872 But I'm not teaching at the university anymore. 987 00:53:45,961 --> 00:53:48,747 - What happened? - Doesn't matter. Don't worry. 988 00:53:48,877 --> 00:53:50,749 If you need more money, I'll get it. 989 00:53:50,879 --> 00:53:52,881 I'm interviewing for engineering jobs. 990 00:53:53,012 --> 00:53:56,145 I will always continue to support you and the kids. 991 00:53:56,276 --> 00:53:59,236 But please, don't make any big purchases right now. 992 00:54:00,802 --> 00:54:02,021 All right. 993 00:54:10,856 --> 00:54:13,902 You wanna close all of your savings accounts, 994 00:54:14,033 --> 00:54:15,164 including the children's? 995 00:54:15,295 --> 00:54:16,427 That's right. 996 00:54:17,341 --> 00:54:18,690 May I ask why? 997 00:54:20,169 --> 00:54:23,390 No. You may not. 998 00:54:23,521 --> 00:54:26,872 I'm their mother. And since they're under the age of 18, 999 00:54:27,002 --> 00:54:28,352 I have control of their finances. 1000 00:54:29,527 --> 00:54:31,529 - That's all you need to know. - Of course. 1001 00:54:32,443 --> 00:54:34,271 I was just making sure it was nothing we did. 1002 00:54:35,750 --> 00:54:38,362 I'll need you to sign these account closure forms. 1003 00:54:45,412 --> 00:54:47,284 What is the withdrawal amount? 1004 00:54:48,502 --> 00:54:51,462 $85,562. 1005 00:54:54,421 --> 00:54:55,727 I'd like that in cash. 1006 00:54:58,947 --> 00:55:00,384 You know, after I got my divorce, I never thought 1007 00:55:00,514 --> 00:55:02,168 I'd be this happy again. 1008 00:55:02,299 --> 00:55:04,039 It was that bad, huh? 1009 00:55:04,692 --> 00:55:07,129 Well, I mean, I don't tell too many people this, but since 1010 00:55:07,260 --> 00:55:11,482 you're a trusted friend, it was a traumatic experience. 1011 00:55:13,048 --> 00:55:15,312 People thought I didn't like men. I like men. 1012 00:55:15,442 --> 00:55:17,488 I just know what they're capable of. 1013 00:55:19,403 --> 00:55:20,491 Right. 1014 00:55:21,535 --> 00:55:23,232 Your turn. Safe space. 1015 00:55:26,366 --> 00:55:28,499 Okay um... 1016 00:55:30,109 --> 00:55:33,547 I haven't been truly honest with you about my younger kids. 1017 00:55:33,678 --> 00:55:34,505 Hmm? 1018 00:55:36,115 --> 00:55:38,509 Um, ever since Kevin moved out, they've been 1019 00:55:39,988 --> 00:55:42,469 very difficult. Russell, in particular. 1020 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,079 How is he acting out? 1021 00:55:44,210 --> 00:55:47,866 Oh, belligerent, withholding affection. 1022 00:55:47,996 --> 00:55:49,824 And I know that they have to work through their feelings 1023 00:55:49,955 --> 00:55:51,783 about the separation but-- 1024 00:55:51,913 --> 00:55:55,308 Withholding affection is a huge form of manipulation. 1025 00:55:57,789 --> 00:56:00,574 Well, and maybe I expect too much, you know? I mean, I, I... 1026 00:56:02,054 --> 00:56:04,273 I always want everything to be perfect, and I know it can't be. 1027 00:56:04,404 --> 00:56:07,102 Oh, that's not true. That's the problem. 1028 00:56:07,233 --> 00:56:10,236 People aim so low, and nothing irritates me more than somebody 1029 00:56:10,367 --> 00:56:12,543 saying, "Nobody's perfect." 1030 00:56:12,673 --> 00:56:16,895 Yeah, my first four were easy. Russell and Eve are just-- 1031 00:56:17,025 --> 00:56:19,201 - Victims of this world? - Yeah. 1032 00:56:19,332 --> 00:56:21,465 Knowing there's a lot of things outside of the home 1033 00:56:21,595 --> 00:56:23,162 that influence children. 1034 00:56:23,292 --> 00:56:25,643 - Social media. - I was thinking more teachers, 1035 00:56:25,773 --> 00:56:27,340 friends. Even the family 1036 00:56:27,471 --> 00:56:28,863 can be a toxic influence. 1037 00:56:30,822 --> 00:56:32,389 I wish I could go back. 1038 00:56:33,607 --> 00:56:35,827 Raise my kids the way I was raised. 1039 00:56:35,957 --> 00:56:38,133 One of the reasons I have empathy for these troubled 1040 00:56:38,264 --> 00:56:40,614 children is because I was once one. 1041 00:56:40,745 --> 00:56:43,269 - You? - I would pray to God every day 1042 00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:44,792 to please make me a better person. 1043 00:56:44,923 --> 00:56:46,707 And were your prayers answered? 1044 00:56:46,838 --> 00:56:49,188 I came to understand that I was put on this planet 1045 00:56:49,318 --> 00:56:53,061 to correct children who've lost their way. Like me. 1046 00:56:54,541 --> 00:56:58,893 I think you and I could make Russell and Eve perfect adults. 1047 00:57:00,765 --> 00:57:04,290 There is nothing in the world I would love more than that. 1048 00:57:04,421 --> 00:57:06,814 Right? Yeah. I have an idea. Why don't you and the kids 1049 00:57:06,945 --> 00:57:08,294 come and stay with me for a while? 1050 00:57:08,425 --> 00:57:10,252 No, you've met my family. We could not 1051 00:57:10,383 --> 00:57:11,471 impose on you like that. 1052 00:57:11,602 --> 00:57:14,256 Don't be silly. It's fine. 1053 00:57:14,387 --> 00:57:16,041 We'll knock the demons right out of those kids. 1054 00:57:25,311 --> 00:57:27,618 Okay, Eve, let's get in the car. We're late, okay? 1055 00:57:27,748 --> 00:57:29,446 - Why aren't they coming? - I told you, 1056 00:57:29,576 --> 00:57:31,404 Abby and Julie need to finish school, okay? 1057 00:57:31,535 --> 00:57:32,405 They'll come later. 1058 00:57:33,450 --> 00:57:36,627 All right, girls, be good. Okay? 1059 00:57:37,497 --> 00:57:38,629 Okay. 1060 00:57:40,935 --> 00:57:44,243 No phones after 6 pm. Can you pack up the dining room? I left 1061 00:57:44,373 --> 00:57:46,158 boxes and tape in the hall. - Okay. 1062 00:57:46,288 --> 00:57:48,421 How long are you gonna be gone? 1063 00:57:48,552 --> 00:57:50,423 I'll be back in a few days to check on you. 1064 00:57:50,554 --> 00:57:51,555 Okay? Abby, you're in charge. 1065 00:57:53,339 --> 00:57:54,993 When are we gonna see Dad again? 1066 00:57:56,473 --> 00:57:59,127 That is entirely up to your father. 1067 00:57:59,258 --> 00:58:00,738 I don't understand. 1068 00:58:00,868 --> 00:58:02,435 I miss him. 1069 00:58:02,566 --> 00:58:04,611 In order for your father to see you again, 1070 00:58:04,742 --> 00:58:07,658 he needs to change his behavior. Okay? And obviously, 1071 00:58:07,788 --> 00:58:10,269 you guys are not important enough for him to do that. 1072 00:58:10,965 --> 00:58:12,184 All right? 1073 00:58:13,490 --> 00:58:16,014 Okay. Russell, Eve, let's go. Come on. 1074 00:58:25,110 --> 00:58:26,633 You made good time! 1075 00:58:26,764 --> 00:58:29,723 Yeah, these guys were just so excited to get here. 1076 00:58:29,854 --> 00:58:31,682 - Ah, come on. - Go inside. Come on! 1077 00:58:38,515 --> 00:58:41,474 Okey dokey. 1078 00:58:41,605 --> 00:58:44,216 All right, just like at home, you each have your own bedrooms. 1079 00:58:44,346 --> 00:58:46,610 But you know what needs to happen before you move in? 1080 00:58:46,740 --> 00:58:47,785 We eat lunch? 1081 00:58:49,090 --> 00:58:50,918 You clean your room. 1082 00:58:51,049 --> 00:58:53,530 Everything has to shine before you unpack even one suitcase. 1083 00:58:54,966 --> 00:58:56,489 Off you go. 1084 00:58:56,620 --> 00:58:58,404 Let's go. Let's get to work. 1085 00:58:58,535 --> 00:59:00,493 Sorry to hear that. I was really hoping it would go 1086 00:59:00,624 --> 00:59:02,364 differently for you and Jodi. 1087 00:59:02,495 --> 00:59:06,847 Yeah, well, you were right. Things sure got worse. 1088 00:59:06,978 --> 00:59:08,849 I mean, Connie and I don't have kids to worry about, 1089 00:59:08,980 --> 00:59:10,982 you know, but I really wish there was something 1090 00:59:11,112 --> 00:59:11,983 I could do to help you. 1091 00:59:12,984 --> 00:59:14,986 Maybe there is. 1092 00:59:15,116 --> 00:59:16,944 That's why I called. 1093 00:59:17,075 --> 00:59:19,033 Bishop Elton is your cousin, right? 1094 00:59:19,164 --> 00:59:21,383 - Yeah, he is. - Hear me out. 1095 00:59:21,514 --> 00:59:24,038 Maybe you can talk to him and see if he would 1096 00:59:24,169 --> 00:59:26,780 intervene with Jodi on my behalf? I know it's a big ask. 1097 00:59:26,911 --> 00:59:29,348 - It's not that, Kevin. - Braxton, 1098 00:59:29,478 --> 00:59:32,830 I am desperate. I keep hitting dead end after-- 1099 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:34,614 - I got to get my family back! - Kevin! 1100 00:59:34,745 --> 00:59:36,616 Connie and I left the church, 1101 00:59:36,747 --> 00:59:39,271 okay? My cousin refuses to speak with me. 1102 00:59:40,751 --> 00:59:41,534 - Wow. - Yeah. 1103 00:59:41,665 --> 00:59:43,231 Uh... 1104 00:59:43,362 --> 00:59:45,016 Do you mind if I ask why? 1105 00:59:45,146 --> 00:59:47,192 It started with Jodi. 1106 00:59:47,322 --> 00:59:49,368 But then we started to think about all the, the shame 1107 00:59:49,498 --> 00:59:51,631 and the fear they throw at you, and frankly, that got to be 1108 00:59:51,762 --> 00:59:53,198 too much and I started losing my faith over it 1109 00:59:53,328 --> 00:59:54,808 and I couldn't get it back. 1110 00:59:55,548 --> 00:59:57,028 - I'm sorry to hear that. - Yeah, well. 1111 00:59:57,158 --> 00:59:59,726 - So, what now? - Now? 1112 00:59:59,857 --> 01:00:01,380 Now we're just trying to start a new life. 1113 01:00:01,510 --> 01:00:03,425 We're still spiritual but I just... 1114 01:00:03,556 --> 01:00:05,123 I wish I could help. 1115 01:00:05,993 --> 01:00:06,951 I understand. 1116 01:00:14,828 --> 01:00:16,917 ConneXions' viewership continues to grow 1117 01:00:17,048 --> 01:00:20,399 and the comments are so positive. 1118 01:00:20,529 --> 01:00:23,576 People seem to love Jodi's philosophy. 1119 01:00:23,707 --> 01:00:27,145 How blessed I am she has chosen to work with my family. 1120 01:00:29,408 --> 01:00:33,107 On a sad note, Russell and Eve have been acting out like crazy. 1121 01:00:33,238 --> 01:00:36,110 No amount of talk therapy is working. I had hoped things 1122 01:00:36,241 --> 01:00:38,635 would be better by now. Jodi and I have been doing 1123 01:00:38,765 --> 01:00:42,073 everything we can to combat their bad behavior. 1124 01:00:42,203 --> 01:00:46,033 We punish them. We make Russell sleep outside. 1125 01:00:46,164 --> 01:00:49,036 We withhold food. And still they don't react. 1126 01:00:49,167 --> 01:00:51,952 Jodi thinks the devil has taken their souls. 1127 01:00:52,083 --> 01:00:54,259 She says we're gonna need to take more drastic measures. 1128 01:01:01,179 --> 01:01:02,833 Eve is still screaming her head off. 1129 01:01:02,963 --> 01:01:05,444 Oh, well stay strong. You're doing the right thing. 1130 01:01:08,142 --> 01:01:10,188 It says it's 112 degrees in the shade. 1131 01:01:11,450 --> 01:01:13,365 Well, she can take the heat. 1132 01:01:13,495 --> 01:01:16,542 Besides, it's not Eve screaming, it's Satan. 1133 01:01:19,937 --> 01:01:21,025 Please. 1134 01:01:22,548 --> 01:01:23,723 What is this? 1135 01:01:23,854 --> 01:01:25,290 It's a wound poultice I like to use. 1136 01:01:25,420 --> 01:01:27,814 All natural. Not like that drug store poison. 1137 01:01:36,257 --> 01:01:39,086 Russell's just standing there barefoot in the hot sun. 1138 01:01:39,217 --> 01:01:40,784 Like a mute. 1139 01:01:40,914 --> 01:01:44,222 He's trying to evoke your sympathy through silence. 1140 01:01:44,352 --> 01:01:46,180 Don't fall for it. 1141 01:01:49,488 --> 01:01:50,663 Has this worked for you before? 1142 01:01:53,405 --> 01:01:56,147 Are you questioning my methods? 1143 01:01:56,277 --> 01:01:57,452 Look, because millions of viewers-- 1144 01:01:57,583 --> 01:01:59,977 No. No, no, of course I'm not. 1145 01:02:00,107 --> 01:02:01,892 I take direction straight from God. 1146 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:07,724 Okay, you can bring 'em in. 1147 01:02:08,072 --> 01:02:09,073 Okay. 1148 01:02:15,644 --> 01:02:17,690 Russell, Eve, get in here. 1149 01:02:26,699 --> 01:02:28,832 Go wash your face. 1150 01:02:28,962 --> 01:02:31,008 Russell, wait. 1151 01:02:39,625 --> 01:02:41,932 You send that demon a message from me. 1152 01:02:43,716 --> 01:02:45,892 I will not give up. 1153 01:02:47,024 --> 01:02:48,765 I will not leave. 1154 01:02:49,983 --> 01:02:52,725 I'm not going anywhere. 1155 01:02:52,856 --> 01:02:55,380 Get out, Satan! 1156 01:02:56,729 --> 01:02:57,774 Go. 1157 01:03:14,268 --> 01:03:16,096 I can't believe I finally got Russell to admit 1158 01:03:16,227 --> 01:03:18,229 that picking up trash is an act of humility. 1159 01:03:21,710 --> 01:03:25,236 Last night was a mind-blowing experience. 1160 01:03:26,715 --> 01:03:29,936 God came to me. He told me I was a special spirit. 1161 01:03:30,067 --> 01:03:32,634 He said I was chosen to prepare the people 1162 01:03:32,765 --> 01:03:33,679 for the return of the savior. 1163 01:03:35,289 --> 01:03:37,335 I knew it. 1164 01:03:37,465 --> 01:03:38,553 God knows you have the faith to deliver 1165 01:03:38,684 --> 01:03:39,903 my children from evil. 1166 01:03:40,033 --> 01:03:41,556 Yes, he told me that. 1167 01:03:41,687 --> 01:03:43,558 But he also told me your children's souls 1168 01:03:43,689 --> 01:03:45,647 are in jeopardy. 1169 01:03:45,778 --> 01:03:49,782 To save them, I feel an imminent need to get them to open land. 1170 01:03:49,913 --> 01:03:52,263 - Open land? - A remote area. 1171 01:03:52,393 --> 01:03:54,961 Somewhere where our work won't be scrutinized by the heathens. 1172 01:03:55,092 --> 01:03:56,397 Like, where are you thinking? 1173 01:03:56,528 --> 01:03:58,356 Remember that ranch property in Arizona 1174 01:03:58,486 --> 01:04:00,184 that I was looking at? - Mm-hmm. 1175 01:04:00,314 --> 01:04:02,403 It would be a perfect destination for my followers, 1176 01:04:02,534 --> 01:04:06,190 500 acres, totally isolated. 1177 01:04:09,367 --> 01:04:13,023 I have some cash at the house. I could get it for 1178 01:04:13,153 --> 01:04:14,938 a downpayment. I mean, if the price is right we could 1179 01:04:15,068 --> 01:04:16,853 move on financing the property immediately. 1180 01:04:19,551 --> 01:04:21,205 Together, we're gonna make them perfect. 1181 01:04:28,690 --> 01:04:30,040 Why is the house up for rent? 1182 01:04:33,434 --> 01:04:35,045 Mom said we're moving to Aunt Jodi's. 1183 01:04:37,177 --> 01:04:39,092 Wh-where is Mom? 1184 01:04:39,223 --> 01:04:41,181 She's already there with Russell and Eve. 1185 01:04:42,095 --> 01:04:44,228 What? How long have they been gone? 1186 01:04:45,055 --> 01:04:47,187 Maybe... 1187 01:04:47,318 --> 01:04:49,886 a week? - Yeah, a week. 1188 01:04:52,149 --> 01:04:53,846 Mom left you here all alone? 1189 01:04:55,326 --> 01:04:56,544 It's not the first time. 1190 01:04:58,329 --> 01:04:59,896 Did you even eat today? 1191 01:05:07,294 --> 01:05:08,469 There's no food in here. 1192 01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:09,906 Abby? Julie? 1193 01:05:18,392 --> 01:05:19,437 What are you doing here? 1194 01:05:21,221 --> 01:05:23,180 You left them here alone for a week? 1195 01:05:24,877 --> 01:05:26,096 They're responsible girls. 1196 01:05:26,226 --> 01:05:27,445 They don't even have any food. 1197 01:05:27,575 --> 01:05:29,838 And why are Russell and Eve at Jodi's? 1198 01:05:29,969 --> 01:05:32,102 Watch... your tone. 1199 01:05:32,232 --> 01:05:36,236 No! Someone's gotta say something! Ever since Jodi 1200 01:05:36,367 --> 01:05:38,978 came into our lives, things have become insane around here! 1201 01:05:39,109 --> 01:05:42,503 I mean, Chad left us. You threw Dad out. 1202 01:05:42,634 --> 01:05:45,680 Julie and Abby are being neglected. And now you're 1203 01:05:45,811 --> 01:05:48,118 letting Russell and Eve live with that monster? 1204 01:05:49,467 --> 01:05:51,948 How dare you? 1205 01:05:52,078 --> 01:05:55,125 Our lives were a mess before Jodi walked into it. 1206 01:05:55,255 --> 01:05:57,997 She has stuck her neck out to help us. 1207 01:05:58,128 --> 01:06:02,306 Help us? Our family has fallen apart! 1208 01:06:02,436 --> 01:06:06,223 Shari, you are wrong! Jodi has done nothing but try to help us. 1209 01:06:06,353 --> 01:06:10,488 We are instilling truth into Eve and Russell. 1210 01:06:10,618 --> 01:06:12,359 Something you clearly know nothing about. 1211 01:06:12,490 --> 01:06:16,537 Let me ask you this. If your kid came to you on fire, would you 1212 01:06:16,668 --> 01:06:19,062 say I'm just gonna meet you where you are? 1213 01:06:19,192 --> 01:06:21,629 No, you'd throw them on the ground. You'd roll them. 1214 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,154 You'd get a blanket. You'd start hitting the flames. 1215 01:06:24,284 --> 01:06:27,113 And they'd say, "You're hurting me. You're, you're beating me." 1216 01:06:27,244 --> 01:06:30,769 And you'd say, "No, dear, hold on, I am getting the fire out." 1217 01:06:30,899 --> 01:06:32,989 But there's no fire! 1218 01:06:34,555 --> 01:06:38,995 How do you not see that you and Jodi are the problem? 1219 01:06:42,824 --> 01:06:44,087 Get out. 1220 01:06:51,094 --> 01:06:55,924 I... I'm begging you, okay? 1221 01:06:57,187 --> 01:07:01,365 Open up your eyes and, and see this woman for what she is! 1222 01:07:07,936 --> 01:07:09,895 Get... 1223 01:07:10,026 --> 01:07:10,896 out. 1224 01:07:12,506 --> 01:07:13,377 Now. 1225 01:07:16,728 --> 01:07:17,729 Go. 1226 01:07:22,908 --> 01:07:24,562 Go! 1227 01:07:38,532 --> 01:07:41,492 Julie, 1228 01:07:41,622 --> 01:07:44,234 Abby, pack your bags. 1229 01:07:44,364 --> 01:07:46,540 You are going to Susan's to help clean. 1230 01:08:06,125 --> 01:08:07,648 Hi, you'e reached Abby. 1231 01:08:07,779 --> 01:08:09,346 Leave me a message. 1232 01:08:09,476 --> 01:08:12,784 Abby, that was... 1233 01:08:12,914 --> 01:08:15,787 I just wanna make sure you guys are all right. Call me. 1234 01:08:28,016 --> 01:08:29,409 911, what's your emergency? 1235 01:08:35,241 --> 01:08:37,852 Police. Open the door! 1236 01:08:37,983 --> 01:08:39,898 We got a call. Are you okay? 1237 01:08:40,028 --> 01:08:42,161 You're not hurt, are you? 1238 01:08:44,642 --> 01:08:45,730 Hey. 1239 01:08:47,427 --> 01:08:48,559 Ma'am can you open 1240 01:08:48,689 --> 01:08:49,603 the door, please? - Just ignore them. 1241 01:08:52,432 --> 01:08:53,651 Can you hear me? 1242 01:08:57,785 --> 01:09:00,310 Without exigent circumstances, we can't enter. Let's go. 1243 01:09:17,849 --> 01:09:19,764 - Hi. - Hi. I'm on my way back. 1244 01:09:19,894 --> 01:09:21,069 How are the kids? 1245 01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,594 Eve continues to try my patience. 1246 01:09:23,724 --> 01:09:25,683 Every time I try a new technique, it works, 1247 01:09:25,813 --> 01:09:27,554 she just digs in harder. 1248 01:09:27,685 --> 01:09:30,166 Right. Um, a few days ago when she was being 1249 01:09:30,296 --> 01:09:32,298 disobedient, wall sits worked for me. 1250 01:09:32,429 --> 01:09:35,214 The real problem is Russell. I'm afraid Satan is still 1251 01:09:35,345 --> 01:09:37,869 manipulating him. I had to tie him up. 1252 01:09:39,523 --> 01:09:40,654 I was hoping we 1253 01:09:40,785 --> 01:09:41,916 wouldn't have to do that again. 1254 01:09:42,047 --> 01:09:44,180 He gave me no choice. 1255 01:09:44,310 --> 01:09:46,530 The restraints are the only thing he responds to. 1256 01:09:48,532 --> 01:09:51,448 Right. I, I know you're doing everything in your power 1257 01:09:51,578 --> 01:09:52,362 to save them. 1258 01:09:53,319 --> 01:09:54,755 - Thank you. - God willing. 1259 01:09:57,932 --> 01:10:01,458 Don't worry, I think they'll come around. 1260 01:10:04,330 --> 01:10:06,550 I dropped Abby and Julie off. 1261 01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:09,553 Unlike Shari, they're good girls. 1262 01:10:11,642 --> 01:10:13,861 I pray Russell and Eve would be more like them, 1263 01:10:13,992 --> 01:10:15,559 choose to live in truth. 1264 01:10:18,823 --> 01:10:21,826 Though it pains me to see the two little ones so defiant... 1265 01:10:26,526 --> 01:10:29,399 ...I know Jodi's methods are necessary. 1266 01:10:33,011 --> 01:10:35,709 The world that we live in today does not support 1267 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:37,233 children being uncomfortable. 1268 01:10:42,934 --> 01:10:46,894 They, the adults, are uncomfortable with 1269 01:10:47,025 --> 01:10:48,592 children being uncomfortable. 1270 01:10:55,207 --> 01:10:59,342 And so, children are comforted, entertained, distracted 1271 01:10:59,472 --> 01:11:02,214 from the need to confess and change. 1272 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:16,054 Stripping down a child's world to the basics of beans, 1273 01:11:16,184 --> 01:11:19,100 and rice, and manual labor, would be considered abuse 1274 01:11:19,231 --> 01:11:22,713 by many, but we know it's not. 1275 01:11:22,843 --> 01:11:25,411 It's necessary for the prideful child. 1276 01:11:45,779 --> 01:11:47,303 For the child who is not humble-- 1277 01:11:49,305 --> 01:11:51,829 ...you have to get to their breaking point. 1278 01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:58,488 911, what is your emergency? 1279 01:11:58,618 --> 01:12:00,490 Yeah, I've got a 12 year old boy. 1280 01:12:00,620 --> 01:12:03,841 I think, there's a good chance he's been abused. 1281 01:12:28,779 --> 01:12:30,302 Police officers! Open up! 1282 01:12:33,523 --> 01:12:35,046 Jodi, I need you to step out. 1283 01:12:35,176 --> 01:12:36,177 I have my attorney on the phone. 1284 01:12:36,308 --> 01:12:38,005 That's great. Step out. 1285 01:12:38,136 --> 01:12:41,313 No, I am not stepping out. Whoa! Whoa, whoa, whoa! 1286 01:12:42,227 --> 01:12:44,011 Whoa! Wait, wait a minute! 1287 01:12:44,142 --> 01:12:45,752 You cannot just come into my house! 1288 01:12:45,883 --> 01:12:47,754 They broke into my house. Do you have a search warrant? 1289 01:12:47,885 --> 01:12:48,712 Have a seat. 1290 01:12:59,462 --> 01:13:00,985 All clear. Stack up! 1291 01:13:01,115 --> 01:13:02,813 There you go. Thanks. 1292 01:13:24,487 --> 01:13:26,706 You can't just come into my house without a search warrant. 1293 01:13:26,837 --> 01:13:28,099 At this moment, we don't need one. 1294 01:13:28,229 --> 01:13:29,753 We're here on exigent circumstances. 1295 01:13:47,510 --> 01:13:49,076 Your call has been forwarded 1296 01:13:49,207 --> 01:13:50,600 to an automatic voice message. 1297 01:14:00,348 --> 01:14:02,133 Ruby, I'm at a job interview. Is everything okay? 1298 01:14:02,263 --> 01:14:04,004 Do you think I'm a good wife? 1299 01:14:04,135 --> 01:14:05,963 I thought phone calls were for emergencies only? 1300 01:14:06,093 --> 01:14:08,661 Am I a good wife? 1301 01:14:08,792 --> 01:14:10,620 Of course. Why would you ask that? 1302 01:14:12,404 --> 01:14:14,711 Am I... 1303 01:14:14,841 --> 01:14:16,147 am I a good mother? 1304 01:14:16,277 --> 01:14:18,323 The best in the world. What is going on? 1305 01:14:21,457 --> 01:14:23,154 Just know that all of this was God's will. 1306 01:14:24,329 --> 01:14:25,765 Ruby-- 1307 01:14:47,308 --> 01:14:49,833 Hi. 1308 01:14:49,963 --> 01:14:52,183 I'm a police officer. 1309 01:14:52,313 --> 01:14:53,663 Are you okay? 1310 01:14:56,579 --> 01:14:57,754 What's your name? 1311 01:15:04,282 --> 01:15:05,501 Eve. 1312 01:15:18,557 --> 01:15:19,819 That's my daughter. 1313 01:15:19,950 --> 01:15:21,517 - Are you the mother? - That's my daughter. 1314 01:15:21,647 --> 01:15:23,997 - Eve! Hey. - Are you Ruby Franke? 1315 01:15:24,128 --> 01:15:26,347 - You can't just take her away - Hey, hey, hey, hey! 1316 01:15:26,478 --> 01:15:28,175 You have no right to take. Eve, I'm right here. 1317 01:15:28,306 --> 01:15:31,701 Baby, I'm right here, okay? Eve, Eve! Hey, that's my daughter! 1318 01:15:31,831 --> 01:15:33,703 - You need to back up! - Eve, baby I'm right here. 1319 01:15:33,833 --> 01:15:35,400 - Come with us. Come with us. - Stop! Stop it! 1320 01:15:35,531 --> 01:15:37,184 - We've got her. - No! Hey! 1321 01:15:37,315 --> 01:15:39,535 Go, get her in the car. 1322 01:15:39,665 --> 01:15:41,711 You're under arrest. You have the right to remain silent. 1323 01:15:41,841 --> 01:15:43,364 Anything you say can and will be used against you 1324 01:15:43,495 --> 01:15:45,105 in the court of law. 1325 01:15:45,236 --> 01:15:46,716 You have the right to an attorney. 1326 01:15:46,846 --> 01:15:48,369 If you cannot afford one, 1327 01:15:48,500 --> 01:15:50,546 one will be provided for you. 1328 01:15:54,811 --> 01:15:57,944 During the separation time, you weren't in any way involved 1329 01:15:58,075 --> 01:15:59,337 in disciplining your kids? 1330 01:15:59,467 --> 01:16:01,426 No, I've chosen to trust my wife with that. 1331 01:16:03,907 --> 01:16:05,909 Let me tell you why you're here. 1332 01:16:06,039 --> 01:16:08,868 This morning we received a 911 call saying that your son, 1333 01:16:08,999 --> 01:16:12,306 Russell, was knocking on doors asking for food and water. 1334 01:16:12,437 --> 01:16:14,570 He was emaciated and malnourished. 1335 01:16:16,484 --> 01:16:18,312 I'm, I'm, I'm sorry, what? 1336 01:16:18,443 --> 01:16:20,924 He had duct tape around his wrists and ankles, 1337 01:16:21,054 --> 01:16:23,491 which covered burns from the ropes that were used 1338 01:16:23,622 --> 01:16:26,146 to tie him down. The open wounds were treated with honey 1339 01:16:26,277 --> 01:16:31,064 and cayenne pepper. Hardly a recipe for pain relief. 1340 01:16:31,195 --> 01:16:33,763 I want you to take a second and think about that. 1341 01:16:33,893 --> 01:16:37,593 That is the condition of your son under the care of your wife. 1342 01:16:39,420 --> 01:16:41,205 What are you saying? I don't understand. 1343 01:16:42,510 --> 01:16:43,642 Neither do we, Kevin. 1344 01:16:43,773 --> 01:16:45,513 Where are Russell and Eve? 1345 01:16:45,644 --> 01:16:47,690 Your children are in the custody of DCS now. 1346 01:16:47,820 --> 01:16:51,084 They're on a medical hold for at least 72 hours. 1347 01:16:51,215 --> 01:16:53,521 You do not have access to them. 1348 01:16:53,652 --> 01:16:54,958 For how long? 1349 01:16:55,088 --> 01:16:56,612 That's a question for Child Services. 1350 01:17:02,835 --> 01:17:05,795 Uh... I feel like this is someone else's life 1351 01:17:05,925 --> 01:17:06,970 that we're talking about. 1352 01:17:10,103 --> 01:17:11,975 I love my wife. 1353 01:17:12,932 --> 01:17:14,064 I love my family. 1354 01:17:15,587 --> 01:17:17,502 How could this happen? 1355 01:17:19,983 --> 01:17:24,248 I have a picture of them by my bedside. 1356 01:17:24,378 --> 01:17:27,077 I look at it every day. 1357 01:17:27,207 --> 01:17:28,992 I try so hard. 1358 01:17:30,907 --> 01:17:33,170 All I want is my family back! 1359 01:17:35,041 --> 01:17:36,739 That's all I've ever wanted. 1360 01:17:39,306 --> 01:17:41,482 Do you live up here? 1361 01:17:41,613 --> 01:17:44,181 Do you live up north? 1362 01:17:44,311 --> 01:17:45,530 How many children do you have? 1363 01:17:48,751 --> 01:17:50,100 Do you need medical attention? 1364 01:17:57,847 --> 01:18:00,458 Evidence photos from the crime scene. 1365 01:18:03,983 --> 01:18:05,768 Any of these look familiar? 1366 01:18:14,733 --> 01:18:16,866 This was just taken at the hospital. 1367 01:18:16,996 --> 01:18:20,783 I wanted you to see the condition your children are in. 1368 01:18:22,436 --> 01:18:25,004 With the evidence we've gathered so far, 1369 01:18:25,135 --> 01:18:27,441 we're charging you with two counts of secondary felony 1370 01:18:27,572 --> 01:18:30,880 child abuse and neglect. Do you understand? 1371 01:18:57,254 --> 01:19:00,083 This is a witch hunt. We've been misunderstood. 1372 01:19:01,649 --> 01:19:03,739 But that's okay. 1373 01:19:06,437 --> 01:19:10,615 Every good person of God has been misunderstood 1374 01:19:10,746 --> 01:19:12,269 over the course of history. 1375 01:19:16,273 --> 01:19:20,190 Truth eternal, truth divine. 1376 01:19:22,583 --> 01:19:28,241 In thine ancient fulness shine! 1377 01:19:28,372 --> 01:19:34,770 Burst the fetters of the mind 1378 01:19:35,727 --> 01:19:40,645 From the millions of mankind! 1379 01:19:45,084 --> 01:19:46,956 Hmm. 1380 01:20:08,455 --> 01:20:09,892 Thank you. 1381 01:20:18,161 --> 01:20:20,772 - Thank you for coming. - Of course. 1382 01:20:20,903 --> 01:20:23,949 Um, Jodi's gonna plead guilty. 1383 01:20:25,385 --> 01:20:28,345 She's only doing it because I pled and she knows that 1384 01:20:28,475 --> 01:20:30,303 if she doesn't, I'm gonna testify against her. 1385 01:20:30,434 --> 01:20:32,523 That's good. I guess. 1386 01:20:34,568 --> 01:20:36,570 I can't believe how much power I gave her. 1387 01:20:36,701 --> 01:20:39,095 I mean, I followed her blindly. 1388 01:20:39,225 --> 01:20:40,531 But I was brainwashed. 1389 01:20:41,924 --> 01:20:42,838 We all were. 1390 01:20:47,407 --> 01:20:48,844 How are the kids? 1391 01:20:50,758 --> 01:20:53,936 Honestly, I'm not sure. 1392 01:20:54,066 --> 01:20:56,547 I haven't been able to connect with Shari or Chad 1393 01:20:56,677 --> 01:20:59,593 and the younger ones are in foster care. 1394 01:21:00,420 --> 01:21:02,379 But I intend to file for custody. 1395 01:21:02,509 --> 01:21:04,468 And you can have the house. 1396 01:21:04,598 --> 01:21:07,950 Um, all the kids can stay there. I will gladly stay away. 1397 01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,300 I'm not sure you have much of a choice. 1398 01:21:10,430 --> 01:21:12,650 Even if you're acquitted, they're gonna place legal 1399 01:21:12,780 --> 01:21:14,434 restrictions on you seeing the underage children. 1400 01:21:14,565 --> 01:21:15,827 I know that. 1401 01:21:22,486 --> 01:21:24,967 Kevin, I wanna thank you 1402 01:21:25,097 --> 01:21:27,752 for stepping up. 1403 01:21:27,883 --> 01:21:29,885 I always knew I could depend on you. 1404 01:21:32,061 --> 01:21:33,410 Thank you for standing by me. 1405 01:21:37,414 --> 01:21:39,242 I guess that makes this all the more difficult. 1406 01:21:43,333 --> 01:21:45,074 Ruby, I'm filing for divorce. 1407 01:21:51,341 --> 01:21:53,691 We meet in the cafeteria after lunch on Wednesdays. 1408 01:21:53,821 --> 01:21:54,910 Martinez. 1409 01:22:09,489 --> 01:22:11,578 Why do you do it? 1410 01:22:11,709 --> 01:22:13,624 Is it for the power or just for the money? 1411 01:22:16,844 --> 01:22:18,803 You ruined my life. 1412 01:22:23,329 --> 01:22:26,028 Don't sell yourself short, Ruby. 1413 01:22:26,158 --> 01:22:28,552 You did a pretty good job of that yourself. 1414 01:22:35,515 --> 01:22:37,387 Settle. Settle. 1415 01:22:38,997 --> 01:22:42,087 Morning, welcome to District Court. 1416 01:22:42,218 --> 01:22:44,524 We're here for sentencing in the matter of the State of Utah 1417 01:22:44,655 --> 01:22:46,787 versus Ruby Franke. 1418 01:22:46,918 --> 01:22:48,964 The prosecution and the defense have come to terms. 1419 01:22:51,401 --> 01:22:55,144 Ms. Franke, I'm told you wish to read a statement. 1420 01:23:01,889 --> 01:23:05,328 In the last few years, I've chosen to follow 1421 01:23:05,458 --> 01:23:08,984 counsel and guidance that has led me into a dark delusion. 1422 01:23:10,420 --> 01:23:13,292 My distorted version of reality went largely unchecked 1423 01:23:13,423 --> 01:23:16,861 as I was to isolate from anyone who challenged me. 1424 01:23:18,167 --> 01:23:22,562 Kevin, my husband of more than 23 years, 1425 01:23:22,693 --> 01:23:24,173 you are the love of my life. 1426 01:23:25,652 --> 01:23:29,352 I am so sorry to leave to you to finish 1427 01:23:30,527 --> 01:23:33,225 what we both started together. 1428 01:23:33,356 --> 01:23:36,402 You are wrapped around my heart in a knot 1429 01:23:36,533 --> 01:23:37,969 I will never be able to undo. 1430 01:23:43,235 --> 01:23:45,759 To my babies, 1431 01:23:45,890 --> 01:23:50,286 my six little chicks, you are a part of me. 1432 01:23:50,416 --> 01:23:53,376 I would never have led you to darkness knowingly. 1433 01:23:53,506 --> 01:23:56,901 I was so disoriented that I believed that dark was light 1434 01:23:58,468 --> 01:24:00,035 and right was wrong. 1435 01:24:03,125 --> 01:24:05,866 My willingness to sacrifice all for you was 1436 01:24:05,997 --> 01:24:09,174 masterfully manipulated into something very ugly. 1437 01:24:09,305 --> 01:24:13,265 I took from you all that was soft 1438 01:24:13,396 --> 01:24:19,184 and safe and good. I took from you your mother. 1439 01:24:19,315 --> 01:24:21,882 How terrifying this must have been for you. 1440 01:24:22,013 --> 01:24:26,104 I will never stop crying for hurting your tender souls. 1441 01:24:28,150 --> 01:24:29,934 I'm so sorry. 1442 01:24:52,739 --> 01:24:54,176 Thank you. 1443 01:24:55,438 --> 01:24:57,440 Since there's nothing further, 1444 01:24:57,570 --> 01:25:00,007 we'll proceed with sentencing. 1445 01:25:00,138 --> 01:25:03,620 Ms. Franke, for your conviction 1446 01:25:03,750 --> 01:25:04,882 you will serve... 1447 01:25:11,758 --> 01:25:13,717 Surprise! 1448 01:25:13,847 --> 01:25:16,981 ♪ Happy birthday to you 1449 01:25:18,722 --> 01:25:22,073 ♪ Happy birthday to you 1450 01:25:23,248 --> 01:25:28,775 ♪ Happy birthday dear, Mom 1451 01:25:28,906 --> 01:25:33,563 ♪ Happy birthday to you 1452 01:25:33,693 --> 01:25:35,521 Woo! 1453 01:25:35,652 --> 01:25:39,046 Oh, my gosh, you guys. You did all this for me? 1454 01:25:39,743 --> 01:25:42,093 - I love you, Mommy! - Aw. 1455 01:25:45,227 --> 01:25:46,053 It was all their idea. 1456 01:25:46,184 --> 01:25:47,881 Wow. 1457 01:25:48,012 --> 01:25:48,839 Make a wish, Mom! 1458 01:25:48,969 --> 01:25:49,840 Yeah! 1459 01:25:51,755 --> 01:25:54,018 You know what? I don't have to. 1460 01:25:56,368 --> 01:25:58,065 It already came true. 1461 01:25:58,196 --> 01:25:59,328 Hmm. 1462 01:26:02,809 --> 01:26:04,724 Thank you. 1463 01:27:21,018 --> 01:27:23,238 Subtitling: difuze